Bu\u010fme up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed, kdy\u017e po v\u00e1s mu\u017e v noci p\u0159estane sahat, bol\u00ed to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ticho mezi dv\u011bma lidmi v posteli se m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e slova.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Za\u010dnete p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let, zda jste to vy, nebo on, nebo mo\u017en\u00e1 va\u0161e d\u0159\u00edv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed bl\u00edzkost pomalu za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 mizet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nen\u00ed to v\u017edy o tom, \u017ee vlak nebo touha zmiz\u00ed. N\u011bkdy jsou p\u0159\u00ed\u010diny hlub\u0161\u00ed, souvis\u00ed se stresem, emocemi nebo v\u011bcmi, o kter\u00fdch se nemluv\u00ed. Zde jsou n\u011bkter\u00e9 z nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00edch d\u016fvod\u016f, pro\u010d se v\u00e1s mu\u017e nechce dotknout v posteli a co mohou ve skute\u010dnosti znamenat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tlak v pr\u00e1ci, finan\u010dn\u00ed probl\u00e9my a osobn\u00ed starosti mohou ovl\u00e1dnout jeho mysl. Kdy\u017e je mu\u017e ve stresu, fyzick\u00e1 intimita \u010dasto ustupuje na zadn\u00ed sedadlo. Ne proto, \u017ee by t\u011b necht\u011bl, ale proto, \u017ee jeho my\u0161lenky jsou jinde, ut\u00e1p\u011bn\u00e9 v probl\u00e9mech, kter\u00e9 nedok\u00e1\u017ee vy\u0159e\u0161it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pro mnoho mu\u017e\u016f je dotyk spojen s emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed bl\u00edzkost\u00ed. Pokud b\u011bhem dne c\u00edt\u00ed vzd\u00e1lenost, m\u016f\u017ee se to prom\u00edtnout do noci. H\u00e1dky, nedorozum\u011bn\u00ed a dokonce i t\u00fddny bez skute\u010dn\u00e9ho rozhovoru mohou vytvo\u0159it odstup, kter\u00fd ho p\u0159im\u011bje fyzicky se st\u00e1hnout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkdy to v\u016fbec nen\u00ed o tob\u011b. Jde o to, jak se c\u00edt\u00ed. Mu\u017e, kter\u00fd se c\u00edt\u00ed nejist\u00fd sv\u00fdm t\u011blem, kondic\u00ed a dokonce i rol\u00ed ve vztahu, se m\u016f\u017ee vyhnout bl\u00edzkosti. Jeho ml\u010den\u00ed v posteli \u010dasto maskuje bou\u0159i pochybnost\u00ed, kter\u00e9 nedok\u00e1\u017ee vyj\u00e1d\u0159it slovy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nev\u00fdslovn\u00fd hn\u011bv se m\u016f\u017ee projevit ne\u010dekan\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. Mo\u017en\u00e1 se c\u00edtil opovrhovan\u00fd, mo\u017en\u00e1 ta star\u00e1 h\u00e1dka nikdy neskon\u010dila a te\u010f mezi v\u00e1mi tahle ho\u0159kost postavila ze\u010f. Mo\u017en\u00e1 to ne\u0159\u00edk\u00e1 nahlas, ale to, jak se v noci ot\u00e1\u010d\u00ed, to v\u0161echno \u0159\u00edk\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tomu je nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed \u010delit. Pokud u\u017e nec\u00edt\u00ed to sam\u00e9 o va\u0161em vztahu, \u010dasto se to projevuje nejprve ve fyzick\u00e9 bl\u00edzkosti. Dotek sl\u00e1bne, pocit se zd\u00e1 nucen\u00fd a vzd\u00e1lenost v posteli se st\u00e1v\u00e1 odrazem vzd\u00e1lenosti v jeho srdci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dotek nen\u00ed jen v\u00e1\u0161e\u0148, je to nechat n\u011bkoho dostate\u010dn\u011b bl\u00edzko, aby vid\u011bl va\u0161e nejhlub\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1sti. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei se vyh\u00fdbaj\u00ed intimit\u011b, proto\u017ee se c\u00edt\u00ed odhaleni. Pokud se ji\u017e stahujete v jin\u00fdch aspektech \u017eivota, m\u016f\u017eete se tak\u00e9 vyhnout tomu, abyste byli pu\u0161t\u011bni pod p\u0159ikr\u00fdvku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkdy je d\u016fvod stejn\u011b jednoduch\u00fd jako prost\u00e9 vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed. Mu\u017e, kter\u00fd je neust\u00e1le vy\u010derpan\u00fd, a\u0165 u\u017e v pr\u00e1ci nebo v \u017eivot\u011b, u\u017e nemus\u00ed m\u00edt v noci co nab\u00eddnout. To neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee t\u011b p\u0159estal cht\u00edt, jen to znamen\u00e1, \u017ee jeho t\u011blo pros\u00ed o odpo\u010dinek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V n\u011bkter\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech vzd\u00e1lenost v posteli skr\u00fdv\u00e1 n\u011bco hlub\u0161\u00edho. M\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt pocit viny, jin\u00e9 pouto nebo tajemstv\u00ed, kter\u00e9 mu\u017e nen\u00ed p\u0159ipraven p\u0159iznat. I kdy\u017e tomu tak nen\u00ed v\u017edy, je to jeden z d\u016fvod\u016f, pro\u010d se v\u00e1s mu\u017e v posteli nedot\u00fdk\u00e1, co\u017e nelze ignorovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e se mu\u017e odst\u011bhuje v posteli, neznamen\u00e1 to v\u017edy, \u017ee t\u011b p\u0159estal milovat. To m\u016f\u017ee znamenat stres, nejistotu, vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed a dokonce i nev\u00fdslovnou bolest. Ale to znamen\u00e1, \u017ee n\u011bco nen\u00ed v po\u0159\u00e1dku a ml\u010den\u00ed nen\u00ed \u0159e\u0161en\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud c\u00edt\u00edte tuto vzd\u00e1lenost, promluvte si s n\u00edm. Ne vy\u010d\u00edtav\u011b, ne na\u0161tvan\u011b, ale up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b. Proto\u017ee intimita nen\u00ed jen ot\u00e1zkou t\u011bla, je to ot\u00e1zka spojen\u00ed. A n\u011bkdy nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed dotek za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 jednoduch\u00fdm rozhovorem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Bu\u010fme up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed, kdy\u017e po v\u00e1s mu\u017e v noci p\u0159estane sahat, bol\u00ed to. Ticho mezi dv\u011bma lidmi v posteli se m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":920,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-919","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/919","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=919"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/919\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":921,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/919\/revisions\/921"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/920"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=919"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=919"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=919"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}