{"id":8381,"date":"2026-04-21T14:10:59","date_gmt":"2026-04-21T14:10:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/?p=8381"},"modified":"2026-04-21T14:10:59","modified_gmt":"2026-04-21T14:10:59","slug":"vztah-se-starsi-zenou-proc-byste-to-nemeli-delat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/?p=8381","title":{"rendered":"Vztah se star\u0161\u00ed \u017eenou: Pro\u010d byste to nem\u011bli d\u011blat"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Vztah se star\u0161\u00ed \u017eenou je nepochybn\u011b kontroverzn\u00ed t\u00e9ma. A pr\u00e1vem, proto\u017ee by j\u00edm m\u011bl b\u00fdt.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je pravda, \u017ee v posledn\u00edch letech propagandistick\u00e1 a medi\u00e1ln\u00ed ma\u0161in\u00e9rie hodn\u011b d\u011blaj\u00ed pro to, aby obraz tohoto typu vztahu \u201eosladila\u201c (zadejte do Googlu \u201evztah se star\u0161\u00ed \u017eenou\u201c a uvid\u00edte pouze \u010dl\u00e1nky pozitivn\u011b nalad\u011bn\u00e9 na tuto my\u0161lenku), ale i pro propagandisty je toto t\u00e9ma t\u011b\u017eko chytateln\u00e9.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pro\u010d? Proto\u017ee norm\u00e1ln\u00edho mu\u017ee t\u0159ese hus\u00ed k\u016f\u017ei p\u0159i pomy\u0161len\u00ed na takov\u00fd vztah.<\/em><\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ned\u011bl\u00e1 to proto, \u017ee by byl n\u011bjak\u00fd misogyn nebo \u201enezral\u00fd\u201c, jak by v\u00e1m feministky cht\u011bly namluvit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nic z toho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u016fvod je mnohem jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed a pramen\u00ed jak z p\u0159\u00edrody, tak ze zdrav\u00e9ho rozumu. Pro mu\u017ee je p\u0159irozen\u00e9 m\u00edt vztah se \u017eenou mlad\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e je on s\u00e1m. Je to tak\u00e9 jedin\u00e1 rozumn\u00e1 volba z \u010dist\u011b zdrav\u00e9ho rozumu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dnes si jednou prov\u017edy vysv\u011btl\u00edme pro\u010d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Biologick\u00e1 p\u0159\u00ed\u010dina<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Za\u010dn\u011bme t\u00edm z\u0159ejm\u00fdm: biologi\u00ed. Norm\u00e1ln\u00ed lid\u00e9 v\u011bd\u00ed, \u017ee se mu\u017ei a \u017eeny li\u0161\u00ed v n\u011bkolika d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fdch ohledech, jedn\u00edm z nich je rychlost, s jakou jejich t\u011bla dosp\u00edvaj\u00ed a vyv\u00edjej\u00ed se.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

U \u017een tento proces prob\u00edh\u00e1 mnohem rychleji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Proto  dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed chlapec ve v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f st\u00e1le vypad\u00e1 jako fl\u00e1ka\u010d a dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed d\u00edvka, zejm\u00e9na v druh\u00e9 polovin\u011b dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed, se rychle za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 podobat \u017een\u011b<\/strong> . Obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b dnes, kdy l\u00ed\u010den\u00ed a oble\u010den\u00ed tento proces je\u0161t\u011b umoc\u0148uj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na v\u00fd\u0161e uveden\u00e9 se pod\u00edlej\u00ed i kulturn\u00ed faktory. Modern\u00ed chlapci jsou odrazov\u00e1ni od dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed, co\u017e oddaluje jejich cestu k mu\u017estv\u00ed. D\u00edvky jsou naproti tomu kulturn\u011b motivov\u00e1ny k sexualizaci, co\u017e je fyzicky \u010din\u00ed v\u00edce podobn\u00fdmi \u017een\u00e1m, ale zp\u016fsobuje jim v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 ment\u00e1ln\u00ed deformace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale vra\u0165me se k j\u00e1dru v\u011bci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mu\u017e dos\u00e1hne sv\u00e9ho pln\u00e9ho biologick\u00e9ho potenci\u00e1lu pozd\u011bji, ale udr\u017e\u00ed si ho d\u00e9le<\/strong> . Proto m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt i ve 40 letech atraktivn\u00ed a \u2013 co\u017e je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 \u2013 st\u00e1le m\u00edt potomky. P\u016fjdu je\u0161t\u011b d\u00e1l: je velk\u00e1 \u0161ance, \u017ee mu\u017e s v\u011bkem zkr\u00e1\u0161l\u00ed (za p\u0159edpokladu, \u017ee se bude dob\u0159e chovat).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017deny jsou v tomto ohledu na tom h\u016f\u0159, proto\u017ee \u010dty\u0159icetilet\u00e1 \u017eena m\u00e1 za sebou d\u00e1vno vrcholn\u00e9 st\u00e1\u0159\u00ed. Nejlep\u0161\u00edm ukazatelem toho je menopauza a extr\u00e9mn\u00ed obt\u00ed\u017ee s po\u010det\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To v\u0161e znamen\u00e1, \u017ee ani man\u017eelstv\u00ed ve stejn\u00e9m v\u011bku nen\u00ed zcela slu\u010diteln\u00e9<\/strong> . Koneckonc\u016f, 40let\u00fd man\u017eel v nejlep\u0161\u00edch letech m\u00e1 st\u00e1le sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby (za p\u0159edpokladu, \u017ee nen\u00ed m\u011bkk\u00fd, ob\u00e9zn\u00ed kousek). Je 40let\u00e1 man\u017eelka schopna tyto pot\u0159eby uspokojit? A co ud\u011bl\u00e1me s t\u00edm, \u017ee \u017eeny st\u00e1rnou rychleji ne\u017e mu\u017ei?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mu\u017e v nejlep\u0161\u00edch letech se ocit\u00e1 obklopen st\u00e1le star\u0161\u00ed \u017eenou, kterou nejen\u017ee nechce, ale tak\u00e9 rychle ztr\u00e1c\u00ed jej\u00ed atraktivitu (jak kv\u016fli v\u011bku, tak i vlastn\u00ed nedbalosti).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mohl bych se tak\u00e9 dotknout skute\u010dnosti, \u017ee odep\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed sexu v man\u017eelstv\u00ed je h\u0159\u00edch (a\u017e na n\u011bkolik v\u00fdjimek). Nyn\u00ed se v\u0161ak touto ot\u00e1zkou nebudeme hloub\u011bji zab\u00fdvat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dovolte mi p\u0159ipomenout, \u017ee st\u00e1le mluv\u00edme o vrstevn\u00edc\u00edch. Nyn\u00ed si p\u0159edstavte situaci, kdy je ve vztahu v\u00fdznamn\u00fd v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl a \u017eena je \u0159ekn\u011bme o 10 let star\u0161\u00ed. Pak by 40let\u00fd man\u017eel m\u011bl 50letou man\u017eelku. V\u00fdsledek? V\u0161echny probl\u00e9my, kter\u00e9 jsem nastolil, by m\u011bly b\u00fdt zd\u016frazn\u011bny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Probl\u00e9m autority<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Dal\u0161\u00edm probl\u00e9mem p\u00e1ru s v\u00fdrazn\u00fdm v\u011bkov\u00fdm rozd\u00edlem (ona je star\u0161\u00ed) je v\u016fdcovstv\u00ed. Vztah nen\u00ed partnerstv\u00ed, navzdory tomu, co si dnes mnoho lid\u00ed mysl\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jedin\u00e1 rovnost, kter\u00e1 v man\u017eelstv\u00ed existuje, se t\u00fdk\u00e1 stejn\u00e9 hodnoty man\u017eela a man\u017eelky jako lidsk\u00fdch bytost\u00ed. To tak\u00e9 znamen\u00e1 povinnost se navz\u00e1jem respektovat a milovat.  Krom\u011b toho v\u0161ak v man\u017eelstv\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 rovnost neexistuje<\/strong> .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Za t\u00edm je ur\u010dit\u00e1 hierarchie:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Man\u017eel<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plocha<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u011bti<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tak\u017ee pokud chcete b\u00fdt \u0161\u00e9fem sv\u00e9 \u017eeny \u2013 a m\u011bli byste, proto\u017ee je to va\u0161e povinnost \u2013 nekla\u010fte si do cesty p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eky vztahem se star\u0161\u00ed \u017eenou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pro\u010d? Proto\u017ee od p\u00e1du \u017eensk\u00fdch srdc\u00ed v sob\u011b skr\u00fdvaj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1rlivost v\u016f\u010di mu\u017esk\u00e9 autorit\u011b, kter\u00e1 jim ze sv\u00e9 podstaty zt\u011b\u017euje pod\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed se man\u017eel\u016fm.  A pokud je man\u017eel mlad\u0161\u00ed, \u017eensk\u00e1 arogance se st\u00e1v\u00e1 je\u0161t\u011b dominantn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a ona odm\u00edt\u00e1 poslouchat.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00edra neposlu\u0161nosti samoz\u0159ejm\u011b z\u00e1vis\u00ed na ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00e1m\u011b zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165, ale faktem to z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pokud je \u017eena star\u0161\u00ed, bude m\u00edt v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed pravd\u011bpodobnost, \u017ee bude m\u00edt vzpurn\u00e9 my\u0161lenky typu: \u201ePro\u010d bych m\u011bla poslouchat n\u011bkoho mlad\u0161\u00edho a m\u00e9n\u011b zku\u0161en\u00e9ho?\u201c To je v\u00fdznamn\u00fd probl\u00e9m, kter\u00fd v\u00e1m v\u00fdrazn\u011b zt\u00ed\u017e\u00ed udr\u017een\u00ed autority va\u0161eho man\u017eela, co\u017e n\u00e1sledn\u011b zat\u00ed\u017e\u00ed cel\u00fd vztah.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Od v\u00fdsledk\u016f tohoto uspo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed neo\u010dek\u00e1vejte nic dobr\u00e9ho. Obvykle se jedn\u00e1 o:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  • neust\u00e1l\u00e1 v\u00e1lka,<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • tv\u00e1 pod\u0159\u00edzenost tv\u00e9 \u017een\u011b,<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • konec vztahu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n

    Jak vid\u00edte, nic pozitivn\u00edho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ve vztahu s mlad\u0161\u00ed \u017eenou tento probl\u00e9m nem\u00e1te, proto\u017ee va\u0161e v\u011bkov\u00e1 v\u00fdhoda posiluje autoritu hlavy rodiny, sp\u00ed\u0161e ne\u017e ji oslabuje.<\/strong>  To samoz\u0159ejm\u011b neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee mlad\u0161\u00ed man\u017eelka bude stoprocentn\u011b poslu\u0161n\u00e1, proto\u017ee, jak jist\u011b v\u00edte… Ale alespo\u0148 nebude m\u00edt dal\u0161\u00ed argument, kter\u00fd by \u010f\u00e1bel mohl pou\u017e\u00edt k poku\u0161en\u00ed k neposlu\u0161nosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    S\u00edla manipulace<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    Vzhledem k tomu, \u017ee mu\u017ei jsou obecn\u011b extrovertn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a \u017eeny introvertn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, existuj\u00ed ur\u010dit\u00e9 rozd\u00edly v jejich postoj\u00edch k \u017eivotu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Mu\u017ei se prim\u00e1rn\u011b zaj\u00edmaj\u00ed o vn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed sv\u011bt<\/strong> , co\u017e se projevuje touhou porozum\u011bt jeho r\u016fzn\u00fdm mechanism\u016fm, touhou po dob\u00fdv\u00e1n\u00ed, \u0159\u00e1du a celkov\u00e9 expanzi (tj. jedn\u00e1n\u00edm sm\u011brem ven). Jin\u00fdmi slovy, mu\u017ei d\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ednost v\u011bcem, kter\u00fdch se lze dotknout, spo\u010d\u00edtat, zkoumat a analyzovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u017deny se naopak  zam\u011b\u0159uj\u00ed p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm na sv\u00e9 vnit\u0159n\u00ed pro\u017eitky<\/strong>  a na to, jak je ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed r\u016fzn\u00e9 prvky vn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho sv\u011bta. Proto se v\u00edce ne\u017e o materi\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1\u017eitky zab\u00fdvaj\u00ed emocemi, pro\u017eitky a budov\u00e1n\u00edm vazeb zalo\u017een\u00fdch na sd\u00edlen\u00ed emocion\u00e1ln\u00edch z\u00e1\u017eitk\u016f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Povaha jednotlivce se samoz\u0159ejm\u011b m\u016f\u017ee li\u0161it, ale toto je obecn\u00e9 pravidlo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    To se prom\u00edt\u00e1 i do toho, jak \u0159e\u0161\u00edme probl\u00e9my. Mu\u017ei jsou ve sv\u00fdch konfliktech p\u0159\u00edmo\u010da\u0159ej\u0161\u00ed a h\u016f\u0159e je skr\u00fdvaj\u00ed.  \u017deny jsou naopak tajn\u016fstk\u00e1\u0159sk\u00e9 a lstiv\u00e9. Sv\u00e9 v\u00e1lky vedou ve st\u00ednu a obvykle se spol\u00e9haj\u00ed na zp\u016fsobov\u00e1n\u00ed emocion\u00e1ln\u00edch a psychick\u00fdch zran\u011bn\u00ed, nikoli fyzick\u00fdch.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Pro\u010d o tom p\u00ed\u0161u?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Proto\u017ee jako mu\u017e bys m\u011bl v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm je \u017eena star\u0161\u00ed a zku\u0161en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, t\u00edm je prohnan\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a lstiv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. A pokud se s n\u00ed zaplete\u0161, bude\u0161 prim\u00e1rn\u00edm c\u00edlem jej\u00edch ment\u00e1ln\u00edch man\u00e9vr\u016f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Tak\u017ee pokud si pr\u016fm\u011brn\u00fd modern\u00ed mu\u017e nedok\u00e1\u017ee poradit ani se \u017eenou sv\u00e9ho v\u011bku, jakou m\u00e1 \u0161anci proti \u017een\u011b s v\u00fdhodou zku\u0161enost\u00ed?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Moc ne. Nemluv\u011b o \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ve v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f tyto vztahy kon\u010d\u00ed t\u00edm, \u017ee se svobodn\u00fd mu\u017e dostane do sp\u00e1r\u016f star\u0161\u00ed pantera. Nav\u00edc si obvykle neuv\u011bdomuje, \u017ee si ho partnerka omotala kolem mal\u00ed\u010dku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Proto je nejlep\u0161\u00ed vz\u00edt si \u017eenu, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1 m\u00e9n\u011b zku\u0161enost\u00ed ne\u017e vy (nebo maxim\u00e1ln\u011b stejn\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti). To v\u00e1m nejen usnadn\u00ed udr\u017een\u00ed va\u0161\u00ed autority jako hlavy rodiny, ale tak\u00e9 v\u00e1m usnadn\u00ed odhalen\u00ed jak\u00e9koli potenci\u00e1ln\u00ed manipulace.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Mlad\u0161\u00ed \u017eeny v t\u00e9to oblasti prost\u011b nejsou tak \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9 a \u010dasto vypadaj\u00ed roztomile, kdy\u017e se o n\u011b<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    sna\u017e\u00ed. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Probl\u00e9my s matkou
    Nakonec bych se r\u00e1d zm\u00ednil je\u0161t\u011b o jednom probl\u00e9mu. M\u00e1m funk\u010dn\u00ed teorii, \u017ee mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed se zaj\u00edmaj\u00ed o star\u0161\u00ed \u017eeny, ve skute\u010dnosti hledaj\u00ed n\u00e1hradn\u00ed matku, kter\u00e1 by se o n\u011b postarala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Odkud se tento n\u00e1pad vzal?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm proto, \u017ee tolik modern\u00edch mu\u017e\u016f m\u00e1 probl\u00e9my s mate\u0159stv\u00edm . Projevuj\u00ed se mnoha r\u016fzn\u00fdmi zp\u016fsoby, ale jejich z\u00e1klad je stejn\u00fd \u2013 nep\u0159e\u0159\u00edznut\u00e1 pupe\u010dn\u00ed \u0161\u0148\u016fra a \u00fapln\u00e1 nebo dominantn\u00ed role matky ve v\u00fdchov\u011b syna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Jak z takov\u00e9ho chlapce vyroste mlad\u00fd mu\u017e, m\u016f\u017ee se snadno st\u00e1t ob\u011bt\u00ed osam\u011bl\u00e9ho pantera. Star\u0161\u00ed \u017eena ho nejen \u201ezahal\u00ed\u201c sv\u00fdmi zku\u0161enostmi, ale tak\u00e9 mu poskytne \u0161t\u011bdrou d\u00e1vku rozko\u0161e prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm sexu. Mu\u017e tak dost\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u0161e, co pot\u0159ebuje \u2013 n\u00e1hradn\u00ed matku a milenku v jednom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ani se o to nemus\u00ed moc sna\u017eit, co\u017e je v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b \u017eivotn\u00ed neschopnosti dal\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdhoda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Osam\u011bl\u00e1 a st\u00e1rnouc\u00ed \u017eena dok\u00e1\u017ee b\u00fdt velmi vynal\u00e9zav\u00e1 a ochotn\u00e1 pomoci, pokud jde o chycen\u00ed mu\u017ee . Nastra\u017e\u00ed s\u00ed\u0165, do kter\u00e9 se nezku\u0161en\u00fd mlad\u00fd mu\u017e snadno chyt\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Jak jsem ale ji\u017e zm\u00ednil, takov\u00e9 vztahy vy\u017eaduj\u00ed ur\u010dit\u00e9 p\u0159edpoklady z\u00edskan\u00e9 z p\u0159edchoz\u00edch \u017eivotn\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed. M\u011b osobn\u011b (a d\u00edky Bohu za to) by dnes \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 star\u0161\u00ed \u017eena nepovzbudila k tomu, abych do vztahu vstoupil, bez ohledu na to, jak hezk\u00e1 nebo p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e1 m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    U\u017e ve mn\u011b prost\u011b nen\u00ed jedin\u00fd akord, kter\u00fdm by m\u011b takov\u00fd delikvent mohl jakkoli okouzlit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b tak\u00e9 ch\u00e1pu, \u017ee n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 do takov\u00fdch vztah\u016f vstupuj\u00ed z lenosti, pohodlnosti nebo prost\u011b z nedostatku jin\u00fdch mo\u017enost\u00ed. Nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fdm tajemstv\u00edm, \u017ee spojen\u00ed se \u017eenou, kter\u00e1 zoufale tou\u017e\u00ed naj\u00edt mu\u017ee a uniknout samot\u011b, ne\u017e vyprchaj\u00ed posledn\u00ed zbytky jej\u00edho kouzla, je m\u00e9n\u011b problematick\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Pro ni je vztah s mlad\u0161\u00edm mu\u017eem atraktivn\u00ed hlavn\u011b proto, \u017ee se sn\u00e1ze ovl\u00e1d\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    A\u0165 tak \u010di onak, faktem z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1: Mu\u017ei obvykle takov\u00e9 v\u011bci ned\u011blaj\u00ed dobrovoln\u011b. Naopak, jejich slabosti nebo minul\u00e1 traumata je nut\u00ed pracovat proti sob\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Proto byste m\u011bli nejprve osvobodit svou du\u0161i od nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00edch pout (co nejv\u00edce je to s Bo\u017e\u00ed milost\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9), ne\u017e v\u016fbec za\u010dnete uva\u017eovat o vztahu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Vztah se star\u0161\u00ed \u017eenou: Shrnut\u00ed
    Je\u0161t\u011b jednu v\u011bc si ujasn\u011bme, jinak se na m\u011b \u017eensk\u00e9 zase na\u0161tvaj\u00ed. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Nerad\u00edm nikomu, aby opustil svou \u017eenu, kdy\u017e zest\u00e1rne. Ani t\u00edm nemysl\u00edm, \u017ee by ka\u017ed\u00fd mu\u017e m\u011bl nutn\u011b ukon\u010dit vztah, pokud je z jak\u00e9hokoli d\u016fvodu se star\u0161\u00ed \u017eenou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    O to nejde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    M\u00fdm z\u00e1m\u011brem je zd\u016fraznit nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9my, kter\u00e9 v takov\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch vznikaj\u00ed. Proto moje rada: mu\u017ei, pokud jste st\u00e1le ve vztahu, je dobr\u00e9 se hned na za\u010d\u00e1tku zbavit t\u011bch problematick\u00fdch m\u00edst, kter\u00e1 lze odstranit .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Faktem je, \u017ee kdy\u017e se v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl ve vztahu p\u0159ikl\u00e1n\u00ed na stranu \u017eeny, obvykle to vede k v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm probl\u00e9m\u016fm. Ty nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed jsem popsal v\u00fd\u0161e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    M\u00e1te k tomuto t\u00e9matu n\u011bjak\u00e9 koment\u00e1\u0159e, my\u0161lenky nebo osobn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti? Pod\u011blte se o n\u011b v koment\u00e1\u0159\u00edch (nebo mi napi\u0161te p\u0159\u00edmo e-mail). A pokud v\u00e1m tento \u010dl\u00e1nek p\u0159i\u0161el zaj\u00edmav\u00fd nebo u\u017eite\u010dn\u00fd, sd\u00edlejte ho s p\u0159\u00edtelem, kolegou nebo zn\u00e1m\u00fdm, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b nav\u0161tivte facebookovou str\u00e1nku blogu a dejte m\u00e9 pr\u00e1ci like.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Vztah se star\u0161\u00ed \u017eenou je nepochybn\u011b kontroverzn\u00ed t\u00e9ma. A pr\u00e1vem, proto\u017ee by j\u00edm m\u011bl b\u00fdt. Je pravda, \u017ee v posledn\u00edch letech propagandistick\u00e1 a \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8382,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8381","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8381","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8381"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8381\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8383,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8381\/revisions\/8383"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/8382"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8381"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8381"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8381"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}