Kdy\u017e jste zamilovan\u00ed, nikdy si nep\u0159edstav\u00edte, \u017ee by tento siln\u00fd cit mohl n\u011bkdy vyprchat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
L\u00e1ska se v\u0161ak m\u016f\u017ee bez varov\u00e1n\u00ed zm\u011bnit v zlomen\u00e9 srdce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Na jak\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly byste si m\u011bli d\u00e1t pozor a jak se vyhnout pocitu viny?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eZhasnut\u00ed l\u00e1sky . <\/em>\u201c<\/a> Takto definuje odmilovanost Larousse\u016fv slovn\u00edk. M\u016f\u017ee ale tento siln\u00fd a hlubok\u00fd cit, kter\u00fd spojuje dva lidi, skute\u010dn\u011b p\u0159es noc zmizet?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Um\u00edraj\u00edc\u00ed l\u00e1sce obvykle p\u0159edch\u00e1zej\u00ed sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 jsou n\u011bkdy tak nen\u00e1padn\u00e9, \u017ee si jich \u010dlov\u011bk m\u016f\u017ee nev\u0161imnout nebo je nesly\u0161et. A kdy\u017e \u010dlov\u011bk \u010del\u00ed odmilovanosti, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed si t\u00e9to situace obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9, n\u011bkdy s pocitem viny. Psycholog se s n\u00e1mi pod\u011bl\u00ed o sv\u00e9 rady, jak tuto zkou\u0161ku p\u0159ekonat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Odmilovanost je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed dlouh\u00e9ho procesu: \u201e L\u00e1ska nezmiz\u00ed lusknut\u00edm prst\u016f; sp\u00ed\u0161e je to uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee u\u017e nejste zamilovan\u00ed, kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt brut\u00e1ln\u00ed. Je to d\u016fsledek pomal\u00e9 eroze, jako n\u011bco, co se den za dnem pomalu rozpad\u00e1 a co se ned\u00e1 zastavit,\u201c<\/em> vysv\u011btluje psycholo\u017eka Am\u00e9lie Boukhobza. \u201e Zpo\u010d\u00e1tku si toho nev\u0161imnete, douf\u00e1te, \u017ee to vybledne, mysl\u00edte si, \u017ee st\u00e1le m\u016f\u017eete znovu rozn\u00edtit plamen, lp\u00edte na v\u011bcech z minulosti. A pak se najednou dostav\u00ed jak\u00e9si uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed, <\/em>dovol\u00edte si p\u0159iznat, \u017ee u\u017e toho druh\u00e9ho nemilujete,<\/strong><\/em> \u201c<\/em> pokra\u010duje. Pr\u00e1v\u011b toto n\u00e1hl\u00e9 uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed ukon\u010d\u00ed l\u00e1sku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Odmilovanost ve vztahu se projevuje mnoha znaky, kter\u00e9 je n\u011bkdy obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 interpretovat, ale kter\u00e9 nakonec m\u011bn\u00ed vztah. Uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed si, \u017ee n\u00e1s l\u00e1ska u\u017e nepoh\u00e1n\u00ed, rostouc\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, pocity nenapln\u011bn\u00fdch o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, pocit osam\u011blosti v p\u0159\u00edtomnosti druh\u00e9 osoby, siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed pot\u0159eba izolace, m\u00e9n\u011b spole\u010dn\u00fdch aktivit a dokonce i pohled na n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho nebo fantaz\u00edrov\u00e1n\u00ed o n\u011bm\u2026 V\u0161echny tyto p\u0159\u00edznaky jsou symptomy<\/a> sl\u00e1bnouc\u00edch romantick\u00fdch cit\u016f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Americk\u00fd psycholog Mark Travers v \u010dasopise Psychology Today tak\u00e9 uvedl <\/em>t\u0159i zn\u00e1mky toho, \u017ee se partner za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 distancovat<\/a> , a to: lhostejnost, nedostatek oddanosti a systematick\u00fd odpor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pro Am\u00e9lie Boukhobzyovou by konec rom\u00e1nku nem\u011bl b\u00fdt interpretov\u00e1n jako ne\u00fasp\u011bch. Jednodu\u0161e si mus\u00edme uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee se vztah vyvinul, \u017ee se n\u011bco zm\u011bnilo. \u201e M\u00edsto toho, abychom ztr\u00e1celi \u010das hled\u00e1n\u00edm, co se dalo ud\u011blat pro z\u00e1chranu vztahu, nebo co jsme prome\u0161kali, je mo\u017en\u00e1 konstruktivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed uznat, \u017ee jsme pro\u017eili kr\u00e1sn\u00fd milostn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh, dokud vztah trval<\/em> .\u201c Prvn\u00edm krokem je p\u0159ijmout, \u017ee l\u00e1ska m\u016f\u017ee skon\u010dit, ani\u017e bychom obvi\u0148ovali sebe nebo druhou osobu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ukon\u010den\u00ed romantick\u00e9ho vztahu, zp\u016fsoben\u00ed bolesti n\u011bkomu, koho jsme milovali,<\/a> m\u016f\u017ee vyvolat obrovsk\u00e9 pocity viny. Pocit viny n\u00e1m v\u0161ak n\u011bkdy br\u00e1n\u00ed v tom, abychom byli k milovan\u00e9mu zcela up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed ze strachu, \u017ee mu ubl\u00ed\u017e\u00edme. Je v\u0161ak d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 chovat se k druh\u00e9 osob\u011b s respektem, nezleh\u010dovat jej\u00ed utrpen\u00ed, mluvit o tom, jak se c\u00edt\u00edme, a sd\u00edlet sv\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky. \u201e Nen\u00ed to ni\u010d\u00ed chyba, ani jednoho, ani druh\u00e9ho, pokud l\u00e1ska vyprch\u00e1.<\/strong><\/em> Pokud ten druh\u00fd pot\u0159ebuje pomoc, aby se z t\u00e9to situace dostal, mus\u00ed za to ud\u011blat s\u00e1m. Ale na\u0161\u00ed rol\u00ed nen\u00ed zachr\u00e1nit toho druh\u00e9ho \u2013 pokud se chce zachr\u00e1nit s\u00e1m, je to jeho pr\u00e1ce. Mus\u00edme si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee nejsme v\u0161emocn\u00ed<\/em> .\u201c<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Kdy\u017e jste zamilovan\u00ed, nikdy si nep\u0159edstav\u00edte, \u017ee by tento siln\u00fd cit mohl n\u011bkdy vyprchat. 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Jak\u00e9 jsou zn\u00e1mky sl\u00e1bnouc\u00ed l\u00e1sky?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Jak se vypo\u0159\u00e1dat s odmilovanost\u00ed?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Pro\u010d je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 nec\u00edtit se provinile?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n