Sp\u00e1nek s nespr\u00e1vnou osobou m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st k emocion\u00e1ln\u00edmu zmatku, kter\u00fd p\u0159etrv\u00e1v\u00e1 dlouho po skon\u010den\u00ed fyzick\u00e9ho setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Co m\u016f\u017ee za\u010d\u00edt jako okam\u017eik v\u00e1\u0161n\u011b nebo zv\u011bdavosti, se m\u016f\u017ee po usazen\u00ed prachu rychle rozpadnout v n\u011bco mnohem slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e sd\u00edl\u00edte intimitu s n\u011bk\u00fdm, kdo si v\u00e1s nev\u00e1\u017e\u00ed nebo si v\u00e1s nev\u00e1\u017e\u00ed, nez\u016fstane jen v tu noc \u2013 prov\u00e1z\u00ed v\u00e1s i v n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00edch dnech a t\u00fddnech a objevuje se v tich\u00fdch chv\u00edl\u00edch, kdy jste sami se sv\u00fdmi my\u0161lenkami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mo\u017en\u00e1 si v duchu p\u0159ehr\u00e1v\u00e1te dan\u00e9 setk\u00e1n\u00ed, pt\u00e1te se, co to znamen\u00e1, nebo si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te, jestli jste neud\u011blali chybu. Po\u010d\u00e1te\u010dn\u00ed vzru\u0161en\u00ed se m\u016f\u017ee snadno zm\u011bnit v pr\u00e1zdnotu, l\u00edtost nebo dokonce pocit, \u017ee jste zneu\u017eiti. Toto hlubok\u00e9 uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed \u2013 \u017ee spojen\u00ed nebylo vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 ani up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e9 \u2013 m\u00e1 tendenci podkop\u00e1vat va\u0161e sebev\u011bdom\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Emoce se zamot\u00e1vaj\u00ed, proto\u017ee intimita nen\u00ed v\u017edy tak jednoduch\u00e1 jako odd\u011blen\u00ed t\u011bla od srdce. Co m\u011blo b\u00fdt prchav\u00fdm okam\u017eikem pot\u011b\u0161en\u00ed, se m\u016f\u017ee prot\u00e1hnout v t\u00fddny nebo m\u011bs\u00edce pochybnost\u00ed o sob\u011b a z\u00e1rmutku. Mnoho lid\u00ed se vyd\u00e1v\u00e1 na nez\u00e1vazn\u00e1 setk\u00e1n\u00ed s nad\u011bj\u00ed, \u017ee se jim poda\u0159\u00ed v\u011bci udr\u017eet v lehkosti, \u017ee odejdou beze zm\u011bny, ale kdy\u017e se k v\u00e1m osoba na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b nechov\u00e1 s p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt dopad hlub\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e se o\u010dek\u00e1valo. I n\u011bco tak mal\u00e9ho, jako je ticho, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1sleduje \u2013 zpr\u00e1va, kter\u00e1 nikdy nep\u0159ijde, hovor, na kter\u00fd se nikdo neozval \u2013 v\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee nechat zpochyb\u0148ovat va\u0161i hodnotu. M\u011bli m\u011b n\u011bkdy opravdu r\u00e1di, nebo jsem jim jen pom\u016fcka? Pro\u010d jsem si dovolil v\u011b\u0159it, \u017ee by to mohlo b\u00fdt v\u00edc? Tyto ot\u00e1zky se mohou to\u010dit ve spir\u00e1le a zt\u011b\u017eovat odpout\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 lidi tato obt\u00ed\u017e pramen\u00ed z p\u0159irozen\u00e9ho lidsk\u00e9ho sklonu citov\u011b se p\u0159ipoutat po intimit\u011b. Kdy\u017e jsou zapojena t\u011bla, \u010dasto je n\u00e1sleduj\u00ed i \u200b\u200bsrdce, a\u0165 u\u017e chceme nebo ne. Oxytocin \u2013 takzvan\u00fd \u201ehormon pouta\u201c \u2013 se b\u011bhem sexu uvol\u0148uje a zat\u00edmco jeden \u010dlov\u011bk m\u016f\u017ee odej\u00edt bez \u00fahony, druh\u00fd se m\u016f\u017ee c\u00edtit propojen\u00fd zp\u016fsobem, kter\u00e9ho se nedok\u00e1\u017ee snadno zbavit. Tato nerovnov\u00e1ha vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed zmatek a \u010dasto i bolest. M\u016f\u017eete zjistit, \u017ee v\u00e1m chyb\u00ed n\u011bkdo, koho jste sotva znali, nebo je\u0161t\u011b h\u016f\u0159, n\u011bkdo, komu na v\u00e1s nikdy nez\u00e1le\u017eelo. A proto\u017ee tyto city nejsou vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt boj o to, j\u00edt d\u00e1l, dlouh\u00fd a vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Krom\u011b emocion\u00e1ln\u00edho utrpen\u00ed existuj\u00ed i \u200b\u200bvelmi re\u00e1ln\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed a vztahov\u00e9 d\u016fsledky. Intimita nen\u00ed jen soukrom\u00fd akt \u2013 m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt dominov\u00e9 \u00fa\u010dinky, kter\u00e9 se roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159\u00ed do va\u0161ich p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, va\u0161\u00ed pov\u011bsti a dokonce i va\u0161eho ka\u017edodenn\u00edho klidu. Pokud se setk\u00e1n\u00ed uskute\u010dnilo s n\u011bk\u00fdm, kdo ji\u017e m\u00e1 v\u00e1\u017en\u00fd vztah, mohou b\u00fdt n\u00e1sledky zni\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed. Zlomen\u00e1 d\u016fv\u011bra se t\u011b\u017eko opravuje a jakmile pravda vyjde najevo, neovlivn\u00ed to jen p\u0159\u00edmo z\u00fa\u010dastn\u011bn\u00e9 osoby. Partne\u0159i, p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 a cel\u00e9 spole\u010densk\u00e9 kruhy mohou b\u00fdt vta\u017eeni do chaosu. Najednou se to, co se zd\u00e1lo jako soukrom\u00e1 volba, st\u00e1v\u00e1 ve\u0159ejn\u00fdm dramatem. Lid\u00e9 se stav\u00ed na n\u011b\u010d\u00ed stranu, \u0161ept\u00e1n\u00ed se m\u011bn\u00ed ve f\u00e1my a \u0161kody mohou p\u0159etrv\u00e1vat roky.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Sp\u00e1nek s nespr\u00e1vnou osobou m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st k emocion\u00e1ln\u00edmu zmatku, kter\u00fd p\u0159etrv\u00e1v\u00e1 dlouho po skon\u010den\u00ed fyzick\u00e9ho setk\u00e1n\u00ed. Co m\u016f\u017ee za\u010d\u00edt jako okam\u017eik v\u00e1\u0161n\u011b nebo \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7547,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7546","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7546","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7546"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7546\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7548,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7546\/revisions\/7548"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7547"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7546"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7546"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7546"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}