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<\/figure>\n\n\n\n1. \u201eJsou te\u010f na tom l\u00e9pe.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I kdy\u017e tato fr\u00e1ze m\u00e1 \u010dasto poskytnout uji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, ve skute\u010dnosti m\u016f\u017ee minimalizovat syrov\u00e9 emoce z\u00e1rmutku. \u0158\u00edct n\u011bkomu, \u017ee jeho milovan\u00fd je \u201ena lep\u0161\u00edm m\u00edst\u011b\u201c,<\/em> m\u016f\u017ee zn\u00edt jako duchovn\u00ed \u00fat\u011bcha, ale pro n\u011bkoho, kdo se se ztr\u00e1tou st\u00e1le vyrovn\u00e1v\u00e1, to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt zneva\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed jeho smutku. M\u016f\u017ee to tak\u00e9 ne\u00famysln\u011b nazna\u010dovat, \u017ee by se m\u011bl posunout d\u00e1l rychleji, ne\u017e je p\u0159ipraven.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Co \u0159\u00edct m\u00edsto toho:<\/strong> 2. \u201eAspo\u0148 \u017eili dlouh\u00fd \u017eivot.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u011bk nesma\u017ee t\u00edhu ztr\u00e1ty. Tvrdit, \u017ee by se n\u011bkdo m\u011bl c\u00edtit vd\u011b\u010dn\u00fd za to, \u017ee jeho milovan\u00e1 osoba \u017eila mnoho let, m\u016f\u017ee z\u00e1rmutek vn\u00edmat jako neplatn\u00fd. Ka\u017ed\u00e9 lou\u010den\u00ed je bolestiv\u00e9, bez ohledu na to, kolik \u010dasu s n\u00edm bylo sd\u00edleno. Tento typ koment\u00e1\u0159e m\u016f\u017ee ne\u00famysln\u011b nazna\u010dovat, \u017ee truchl\u00edc\u00ed nem\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo c\u00edtit hlubok\u00fd smutek, co\u017e m\u016f\u017ee je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edce umocnit vinu v ji\u017e tak t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9m srdci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Co \u0159\u00edct m\u00edsto toho:<\/strong> 3. \u201eP\u0159esn\u011b v\u00edm, jak se c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I kdy\u017e jste pro\u017eili podobnou ztr\u00e1tu, z\u00e1rmutek je hluboce osobn\u00ed a \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 dva z\u00e1\u017eitky nejsou nikdy stejn\u00e9. \u0158\u00edct \u201eV\u00edm, jak se c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161\u201c<\/em> m\u016f\u017ee ne\u00famysln\u011b p\u0159esunout pozornost od truchl\u00edc\u00ed osoby k va\u0161emu vlastn\u00edmu p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu. M\u016f\u017ee to tak\u00e9 zn\u00edt troufale, jako byste pln\u011b ch\u00e1pali emoce, kter\u00e9 jsou pro n\u011b jedine\u010dn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Co \u0159\u00edct m\u00edsto toho:<\/strong> 4. \u201eV\u0161echno se d\u011bje z n\u011bjak\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A\u010dkoli se n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 k tomuto spojen\u00ed p\u0159ikl\u00e1n\u011bj\u00ed jako k duchovn\u00ed nebo filozofick\u00e9 \u00fat\u011b\u0161e, pro n\u011bkoho, kdo hluboce z\u00e1rmutek pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1, m\u016f\u017ee \u010dasto p\u016fsobit chladn\u011b nebo odta\u017eit\u011b. Tvrdit, \u017ee \u00famrt\u00ed milovan\u00e9 osoby m\u00e1 konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed \u201ed\u016fvod\u201c, m\u016f\u017ee p\u016fsobit pohrdav\u011b, jako byste se sna\u017eili racionalizovat jeho utrpen\u00ed, sp\u00ed\u0161e ne\u017e sd\u00edlet jeho bolest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Co \u0159\u00edct m\u00edsto toho:<\/strong> \u201eTohle mus\u00ed b\u00fdt neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u011b t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9. Moc m\u011b to mrz\u00ed.\u201c Uzn\u00e1n\u00ed obt\u00ed\u017enosti dan\u00e9 situace, ani\u017e byste se ji sna\u017eili ospravedl\u0148ovat, projevuje soucit a respekt k jejich emoc\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Z\u00e1v\u011bre\u010dn\u00e9 my\u0161lenky<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Pokud jde o poh\u0159by a vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed soustrasti, va\u0161e slova nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt hlubok\u00e1 ani poetick\u00e1. Nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je up\u0159\u00edmnost, n\u011bha a p\u0159\u00edtomnost. N\u011bkdy naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed, uklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed objet\u00ed nebo prost\u00e9 tich\u00e9 sezen\u00ed po n\u011b\u010d\u00edm boku m\u016f\u017ee mluvit hlasit\u011bji ne\u017e cokoli, co \u0159eknete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n T\u00edm, \u017ee se vyhnete t\u011bmto b\u011b\u017en\u00fdm chybn\u00fdm krok\u016fm a budete volbou slov, kter\u00e1 skute\u010dn\u011b vyjad\u0159uj\u00ed empatii, m\u016f\u017eete poskytnout takovou podporu, kter\u00e1 pom\u016f\u017ee truchl\u00edc\u00edm srdc\u00edm c\u00edtit se m\u00e9n\u011b osam\u011ble.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Pokud jde o poh\u0159by a vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed soustrasti, va\u0161e slova nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt hlubok\u00e1 ani poetick\u00e1. Poh\u0159by pat\u0159\u00ed k nejcitliv\u011bj\u0161\u00edm a nejcitliv\u011bj\u0161\u00edm okam\u017eik\u016fm v \u017eivot\u011b, \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5915,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5914","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5914","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5914"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5914\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5916,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5914\/revisions\/5916"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5915"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5914"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5914"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5914"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\u201eJe mi moc l\u00edto tv\u00e9 ztr\u00e1ty. Jsem tu, kdy\u017e bude\u0161 cokoli pot\u0159ebovat.\u201c
Tato jednoduch\u00e1 a up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e1 slova uzn\u00e1vaj\u00ed bolest, ani\u017e by se ji sna\u017eila napravit, projevuj\u00ed empatii a p\u0159\u00edtomnost m\u00edsto n\u00e1tlaku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eDotkli se tolika \u017eivot\u016f. V\u00edm, \u017ee pro v\u00e1s hodn\u011b znamenali.\u201c
Tato odpov\u011b\u010f zd\u016fraz\u0148uje dopad a odkaz dan\u00e9 osoby a zam\u011b\u0159uje se sp\u00ed\u0161e na l\u00e1sku a vzpom\u00ednku ne\u017e na statistiky nebo srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eNedok\u00e1\u017eu si p\u0159edstavit, \u010d\u00edm si proch\u00e1z\u00ed\u0161, ale jsem tu pro tebe.\u201c
Tento p\u0159\u00edstup respektuje individualitu z\u00e1rmutku a z\u00e1rove\u0148 nab\u00edz\u00ed va\u0161i p\u0159\u00edtomnost jako \u00fat\u011bchu. Vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 se domn\u011bnk\u00e1m a projevuje up\u0159\u00edmnou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n\n\n\n