{"id":5563,"date":"2026-03-06T08:26:06","date_gmt":"2026-03-06T08:26:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/?p=5563"},"modified":"2026-03-06T08:26:06","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T08:26:06","slug":"s3-smali-se-mu-ze-si-ji-vzal-po-letech-si-vsichni-preji-aby-to-neudelali-prectete-si-smutnou-aktualizaci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/?p=5563","title":{"rendered":"S3. Sm\u00e1li se mu, \u017ee si ji vzal, po letech si v\u0161ichni p\u0159ej\u00ed, aby to neud\u011blali.. P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si smutnou aktualizaci"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Amalie Jennings (30) a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dob\u0159e v\u011bd\u011bla, jak krut\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt sv\u011bt.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u011bt\u0161inu sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota bojovala s nen\u00e1vist\u00ed k sob\u011b a pocitem outsidera kv\u016fli sv\u00e9mu t\u011blu. V\u0161echno se ale zm\u011bnilo, kdy\u017e potkala mu\u017ee jm\u00e9nem Sean.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dOd sv\u00fdch dvou let jsem byl v\u017edy tlust\u00fd, vysv\u011btlila v roce 2019\u201d Amalie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dM\u00e1ma m\u011b vzala k l\u00e9ka\u0159\u016fm, proto\u017ee jsem hodn\u011b p\u0159ib\u00edral. Od t\u00e9 doby, co si pamatuji, jsem tlust\u00fd. A to samoz\u0159ejm\u011b p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed se spoustou \u0161ikany, spoustou dob\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed. Moje nejstar\u0161\u00ed vzpom\u00ednka na \u0161ikanu je v M\u0160, kdy\u017e mi byly kolem \u010dty\u0159. A v\u0161echny d\u011bti si m\u011b dob\u00edraly, \u017ee jsem tlust\u00e1.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jak Amalie st\u00e1rla, \u0161ikana jen zes\u00edlila.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dP\u0159ibral jsem je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edc, co\u017e znamenalo, \u017ee jsem byl vybr\u00e1n je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edc. Za\u010dal jsem se sebepo\u0161kozovat a znovu jsem se do toho pustil, \u0159ekla. \u201dPr\u00e1v\u011b jsem m\u011bl opravdu hrozn\u00fd sebeobraz. Nesn\u00e1\u0161el jsem pohled do zrcadla.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dal\u0161\u00edm zdrojem bolesti bylo nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed oble\u010den\u00ed. Amalie vzpom\u00ednala, jak u\u017e jako mal\u00e1 musela nakupovat v \u017eensk\u00e9m odd\u011blen\u00ed, proto\u017ee j\u00ed nepadalo d\u011btsk\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Amalie nemohla nosit m\u00f3dn\u00ed oble\u010den\u00ed jin\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed jej\u00edho v\u011bku. M\u00edsto toho se musela spokojit s oble\u010den\u00edm pro dosp\u011bl\u00e9, co\u017e jen p\u0159idalo na jej\u00edch pocitech izolace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jej\u00ed pocity izolace rostly, kdy\u017e si v\u0161imla nedostate\u010dn\u00e9ho zastoupen\u00ed lid\u00ed, jako je ona, v knih\u00e1ch nebo m\u00e9di\u00edch. A kdy\u017e se postavy s nadv\u00e1hou objevily, byly \u010dasto zobrazov\u00e1ny jako karikatury.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spojen\u00ed, kter\u00e9 m\u011bn\u00ed \u017eivot<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

V\u011bci se za\u010daly m\u011bnit, kdy\u017e Amalie, p\u016fvodem z D\u00e1nska, potkala sv\u00e9ho man\u017eela Seana, Brita, prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm online videohry. Jejich nepravd\u011bpodobn\u00e9 spojen\u00ed p\u0159erostlo v p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, kter\u00e9 rozkvetlo v n\u011bco v\u00edc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dM\u016fj man\u017eel Sean a j\u00e1 jsme se potkali p\u0159ed 11 lety ve h\u0159e na PlayStation, \u0159ekla. \u201dZpo\u010d\u00e1tku jsem si myslel, \u017ee je to star\u00fd mu\u017e, kter\u00fd jen hled\u00e1 mladou \u017eenu, se kterou by si mohl promluvit. Ale pak jsem se dozv\u011bd\u011bl, \u017ee je v m\u00e9m v\u011bku.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jejich vztah za\u010dal na pevn\u00fdch z\u00e1kladech konverzace, opro\u0161t\u011bn\u00fd od bezprost\u0159edn\u00edch soud\u016f o vzhledu. P\u0159esto\u017ee vid\u011bli sv\u00e9 fotky, chv\u00edli trvalo, ne\u017e za\u010dali videochatovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Amalie p\u0159iznala, \u017ee jej\u00ed nejistoty ji \u010dasto \u010dinily sebev\u011bdomou, dokonce i na za\u010d\u00e1tku. \u201dNa obr\u00e1zc\u00edch jsem vid\u011bl, jak jsem tlust\u00fd, ale po\u0159\u00e1d se mnou mluvil, \u0159ekla. \u201dByl jsem tak nejist\u00fd s\u00e1m sebou; Schoval bych svou dvojitou bradu. Ale st\u00e1le ho to nezaj\u00edmalo, jen se mnou cht\u011bl mluvit.\u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zanedlouho se z t\u011bch dvou stali nejlep\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9. Trvalo n\u011bjakou dobu, ne\u017e si uv\u011bdomili, \u017ee jsou zamilovan\u00ed. Amalie za\u010dala shazovat n\u00e1znaky o sv\u00fdch pocitech, ale on je okam\u017eit\u011b nezvedl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nakonec za\u010dala na Facebook zve\u0159ej\u0148ovat jemn\u00e9 milostn\u00e9 pozn\u00e1mky, kter\u00fdch si Sean v\u0161iml, ale zpo\u010d\u00e1tku jim pln\u011b nerozum\u011bl. Sean zpo\u010d\u00e1tku p\u0159edpokl\u00e1dal, \u017ee m\u00e1 na mysli n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nakonec d\u00e1nsk\u00e1 d\u00edvka sebrala odvahu, aby se p\u0159\u00edmo p\u0159iznala ke sv\u00fdm cit\u016fm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dByl to ten nejpodivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed pocit, proto\u017ee jsem p\u0159edt\u00edm nem\u011bl \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed s p\u0159\u00e1teli, \u0159ekla Amalie. \u201dA kone\u010dn\u011b, tady je ten chlap, 500 mil daleko, kter\u00fd si m\u011b obl\u00edbil stejn\u011b jako j\u00e1 jeho.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\u017dena,<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed rozsudku<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Jejich vztah na d\u00e1lku se brzy zm\u011bnil v n\u011bco trvalej\u0161\u00edho a Amalie se p\u0159est\u011bhovala do Anglie za Seanem. Jejich vztah v\u0161ak nebyl v\u017edy prost\u00fd \u00fasudku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Podle Seana cizinci \u010dasto d\u011blali necitliv\u00e9 koment\u00e1\u0159e a p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161leli, pro\u010d by s n\u00ed on, \u0161t\u00edhl\u00fd mu\u017e, cht\u011bl b\u00fdt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lid\u00e9 se \u010dasto ptali, jestli m\u00e1 n\u011bjak\u00fd feti\u0161, ale Sean v\u017edy d\u00e1val jasn\u011b najevo, \u017ee jej\u00ed v\u00e1ha nen\u00ed to, na \u010dem mu z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed. Zamiloval se do toho, k\u00fdm byla, ne do \u010d\u00edsla na stupnici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Navzdory jejich siln\u00e9mu poutu si vn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed kontrola n\u011bkdy vybrala da\u0148. V rozhovoru z roku 2019 p\u00e1r odhalil, \u017ee zat\u00edmco v\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed v jejich \u017eivotech byla oporou, museli p\u0159eru\u0161it vztahy se Seanov\u00fdm otcem. P\u0159esn\u00e9 okolnosti z\u016fstaly soukrom\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"C\u00f3<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Poselstv\u00ed sebel\u00e1sky<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Amalie pou\u017eila m\u00e9dia a tuto platformu, aby se vyslovila proti fatfobii, zejm\u00e9na v l\u00e9ka\u0159sk\u00e9 oblasti, a \u0161\u00ed\u0159ila poselstv\u00ed o sebep\u0159ijet\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKdybych se m\u011bl n\u011bkdy vr\u00e1tit a promluvit si s mlad\u0161\u00ed Amalie, \u0159ekl bych: \u2018P\u0159esta\u0148 ztr\u00e1cet \u010das nen\u00e1vid\u011bn\u00edm se. Ano, va\u0161e t\u011blo je jin\u00e9, ale to neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee je to \u0161patn\u00e9 t\u011blo, \u0159ekla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dNikdy nebudete schopni zabr\u00e1nit lidem, aby o v\u00e1s \u0159\u00edkali v\u011bci. Nikdy jim nebude\u0161 moct zabr\u00e1nit, aby se na tebe d\u00edvali. Ale m\u016f\u017eete p\u0159estat nechat to ovlivnit v\u00e1s. A tak\u00e9 mus\u00edte v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee najdete lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u00e1s miluj\u00ed\u2014, kte\u0159\u00ed miluj\u00ed va\u0161e t\u011blo takov\u00e9, jak\u00e9 je.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je toho hodn\u011b, co je t\u0159eba \u0159\u00edci o povzbuzov\u00e1n\u00ed lid\u00ed ke zdrav\u00e9mu \u017eivotn\u00edmu stylu, ale mo\u017en\u00e1 je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edce o tom, aby se lid\u00e9 nestyd\u011bli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Body shaming z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 v dne\u0161n\u00ed spole\u010dnosti velk\u00fdm probl\u00e9mem a ve skute\u010dnosti nikomu nepom\u00e1h\u00e1. To, \u017ee se n\u011bkdo c\u00edt\u00ed hrozn\u011b s\u00e1m ze sebe a nepohodln\u011b ve sv\u00e9m vlastn\u00edm t\u011ble, ne v\u017edy motivuje ke zm\u011bn\u011b. Naopak, m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt nep\u0159\u00edzniv\u00fd vliv, pokud jde o d\u016fv\u011bru a \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, a tak n\u011bkdy zhor\u0161uje z\u00e1kladn\u00ed probl\u00e9my.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Amalie a Seana b\u011bhem sv\u00e9 cesty uk\u00e1zal, \u017ee l\u00e1ska, laskavost a p\u0159ijet\u00ed mohou zm\u011bnit v\u0161e \u2014 i ve sv\u011bt\u011b, kter\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt drsn\u00fd a nemilosrdn\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Objet\u00ed<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Amalie Jennings zem\u0159ela v roce 2024<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Jsem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Amalie Jennings\u2019 se stal vir\u00e1ln\u00edm v roce 2019 a svou inspirativn\u00ed cestou sebep\u0159ijet\u00ed a l\u00e1sky se dotkl srdc\u00ed po cel\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bohu\u017eel tato state\u010dn\u00e1 d\u00e1ma zem\u0159ela 15. \u010dervence 2024. Okolnosti jej\u00ed smrti z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed nejasn\u00e9, ale jej\u00ed nekrolog sd\u00edlel, \u017ee Amalie, l\u00e1skypln\u011b p\u0159ezd\u00edvan\u00e1 \u201dMalle,\u201d zem\u0159ela pokojn\u011b. Bylo j\u00ed pouh\u00fdch 30 let.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dMilovan\u00ed a minuli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018Kdy\u017e vid\u00edte t\u0159pyt hv\u011bzdy,
m\u00e1m na tebe m\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jm\u00e9nem rodiny,
Sean, m\u00e1ma, Pavia a Pia,\u201d uvedl nekrolog.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdy\u017e se dnes zept\u00e1te hater\u016f, pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b by si uv\u011bdomili, \u017ee milostn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Amalie a Seana trval a\u017e do sam\u00e9ho konce a \u017ee zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm byli spolu, inspiroval mnoho lid\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017divot Amalie Jennings\u2019 mo\u017en\u00e1 skon\u010dil p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 brzy, ale jej\u00ed poselstv\u00ed sebel\u00e1sky a jej\u00ed boj za laskav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed sv\u011bt budou i nad\u00e1le inspirovat mnoh\u00e9. Uct\u011bme jej\u00ed pam\u00e1tku snahou vybudovat sv\u011bt, kde se ka\u017ed\u00fd c\u00edt\u00ed vid\u011bn, p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1n a cen\u011bn.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na\u0161e srdce pat\u0159\u00ed Seanovi a rodin\u011b v t\u00e9to t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 dob\u011b.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Amalie Jennings (30) a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dob\u0159e v\u011bd\u011bla, jak krut\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt sv\u011bt. V\u011bt\u0161inu sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota bojovala s nen\u00e1vist\u00ed k sob\u011b a pocitem outsidera \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5563","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5563","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5563"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5563\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5564,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5563\/revisions\/5564"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5563"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5563"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5563"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}