Pokud jste s mu\u017eem, kter\u00fd si v\u00e1s nev\u00e1\u017e\u00ed, nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zde je to, co byste m\u011bli ud\u011blat \u2013 jasn\u00e9 a konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed kroky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Po\u017e\u00e1dat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee m\u011b n\u011bkdo ignoruje?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00edt\u00edm se v jeho spole\u010dnosti citov\u011b vy\u010derpan\u00fd\/\u00e1?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vynakl\u00e1d\u00e1 d\u016fsledn\u00e9 \u00fasil\u00ed, nebo d\u011bl\u00e1 jen to nejnutn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed minimum, aby si m\u011b udr\u017eel?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Neomlouvej jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Uv\u011bdom si to jasn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0158ekn\u011bte p\u0159esn\u011b, jak se c\u00edt\u00edte, co pot\u0159ebujete a co se stane, kdy\u017e se nic nezm\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u0159\u00edklad skriptu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eC\u00edt\u00edm se nedocen\u011bn\u00e1, kdy\u017e [konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed].
Pot\u0159ebuji [konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed zm\u011bnu].
Pokud se tak nestane, budu muset tento vztah p\u0159ehodnotit.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Neh\u00e1dej se. Nepros ho. Prost\u011b to \u0159ekni. Jednou. A pak se d\u00edvej, co d\u011bl\u00e1, ne co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. P\u0159esta\u0148te se p\u0159epracov\u00e1vat<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u017edy iniciuje<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Opravov\u00e1n\u00ed v\u011bc\u00ed emocion\u00e1ln\u011b<\/p>\n\n\n\n
D\u011bl\u00e1\u0161 v\u00edc, ne\u017e m\u00e1\u0161<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zastav se. Uka\u017e nerovnov\u00e1hu. A\u0165 poc\u00edt\u00ed, jak z tebe unik\u00e1 energie. To je \u010dasto prvn\u00ed varovn\u00fd sign\u00e1l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud ignoruje va\u0161e pot\u0159eby nebo v\u00e1s soustavn\u011b nerespektuje, mus\u00ed to n\u00e9st skute\u010dn\u00e9 d\u016fsledky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vyh\u00fdbejte se konverzac\u00edm, kter\u00e9 se zvrhnou ve vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 obvi\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Odm\u00edtejte intimitu nebo laskavosti, dokud si nenastol\u00edte respekt<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ukon\u010dete vztah, pokud po p\u0159ekro\u010den\u00ed hranice nedojde ke zm\u011bn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nem\u016f\u017ee\u0161 n\u011bkoho \u201emilovat\u201c, aby si t\u011b v\u00e1\u017eil. Ale m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 opustit n\u011bkoho, kdo t\u011b nemiluje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To, \u017ee t\u011b necen\u00ed, neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee nejsi dost dobr\u00e1. Znamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee ti nen\u00ed schopen nebo ochoten d\u00e1t to, co si zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 jsou citov\u011b nedostupn\u00ed, sobe\u010dt\u00ed nebo p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 zran\u011bn\u00ed na to, aby d\u016fsledn\u011b projevovali l\u00e1sku. To pro n\u011b nic nenaprav\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud uzn\u00e1n\u00ed nep\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed s va\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtomnost\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159ij\u00edt s va\u0161\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edtomnost\u00ed. Ale i kdy\u017e ne, vyhr\u00e1v\u00e1te. Proto\u017ee u\u017e nejste v jednostrann\u00e9m vztahu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud se probud\u00ed po tv\u00e9m odchodu, je na n\u011bm, aby dok\u00e1zal, \u017ee se zm\u011bnil \u2013 \u010diny, ne sliby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud je odpov\u011b\u010f \u201ene\u201c \u2013 u\u017e m\u00e1te svou odpov\u011b\u010f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bonus: Varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly mu\u017ee, kter\u00fd si v\u00e1s nev\u00e1\u017e\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u0161imne si t\u011b, jen kdy\u017e p\u0159estane\u0161 d\u00e1vat<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ignoruje va\u0161e pocity nebo v\u00e1s naz\u00fdv\u00e1 \u201ep\u0159\u00edli\u0161 emocion\u00e1ln\u00edmi\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Neomlouv\u00e1 se a nebere na sebe odpov\u011bdnost<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kv\u016fli tomu m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee toho po\u0159\u00e1d d\u011bl\u00e1te p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho a p\u0159itom ne dost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00edc mu z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, aby m\u011bl pravdu, ne\u017e aby byl mil\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne\u017e\u00e1d\u00e1\u0161 o moc. \u017d\u00e1d\u00e1\u0161 o to \u0161patnou osobu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zbavte se my\u0161lenky, \u017ee o uzn\u00e1n\u00ed mus\u00edte bojovat. Spr\u00e1vn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk to nebude pot\u0159ebovat p\u0159ipom\u00ednat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Pokud jste s mu\u017eem, kter\u00fd si v\u00e1s nev\u00e1\u017e\u00ed, nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je: Nenau\u010d\u00edte n\u011bkoho, aby si v\u00e1s v\u00e1\u017eil, t\u00edm, \u017ee s n\u00edm budete tr\u00e1vit p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":554,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-553","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/553","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=553"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/553\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":555,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/553\/revisions\/555"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/554"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=553"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=553"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=553"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}