N\u011bkdy \u201eMiluji t\u011b\u201c nesta\u010d\u00ed: abyste se ve vztahu c\u00edtili bezpe\u010dn\u011b, pot\u0159ebujete skute\u010dn\u00fd d\u016fkaz l\u00e1sky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poj\u010fme se na to pod\u00edvat s Jeanem-Michelem Jakobowiczem, hypnoterapeutem a specialistou na vztahy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Co p\u0159esn\u011b p\u0159edstavuje \u201ev\u011brohodn\u00fd\u201c d\u016fkaz l\u00e1sky?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jean-Michel Jakobowicz. V\u0161e z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na va\u0161em du\u0161evn\u00edm rozpolo\u017een\u00ed! Tak\u017ee pokud se va\u0161emu vztahu da\u0159\u00ed, d\u016fkaz l\u00e1sky m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt mnoho podob: prost\u00fd \u00fasm\u011bv, sladk\u00fd polibek, n\u011b\u017en\u00e9 slovo, n\u011b\u017en\u011b za\u0161eptan\u00e9 \u201eMiluji t\u011b\u201c… N\u011bkdy nesta\u010d\u00ed mnoho k tomu, abyste se c\u00edtili zcela a skute\u010dn\u011b milov\u00e1ni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V n\u011bkter\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech je d\u016fkaz l\u00e1sky mnohem hmatateln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed: kytice kv\u011btin, \u0161perky, ve\u010de\u0159e p\u0159i sv\u00ed\u010dk\u00e1ch\u2026 Hlavn\u00edm \u00fa\u010delem t\u011bchto \u201ed\u00e1rk\u016f\u201c je p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm vyj\u00e1d\u0159it siln\u00e9 pouto, emoce a sd\u00edlenou l\u00e1sku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Naopak, pokud p\u00e1r proch\u00e1z\u00ed t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdm obdob\u00edm, lze jakoukoli ud\u00e1lost interpretovat jako\u2026 d\u016fkaz odmilovanosti: grimasa, m\u00edrn\u011b drsn\u00fd t\u00f3n hlasu, d\u00e1rek darovan\u00fd bez up\u0159\u00edmn\u00fdch cit\u016f nebo dokonce monot\u00f3nn\u00ed \u201eMiluji t\u011b\u201c lze vn\u00edmat jako negativn\u00ed znamen\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\u201eMiluje\u0161 m\u011b?\u201c: Pro\u010d ve vztahu v\u017edy pot\u0159ebujeme uji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
Pro\u010d ve vztahu pot\u0159ebujeme d\u016fkaz l\u00e1sky?
Jean-Michel Jakobowicz. Kdy\u017e jsme zamilovan\u00ed, m\u016f\u017eeme se c\u00edtit zraniteln\u00ed, proto\u017ee emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed s\u00e1zky jsou v tomto turbulentn\u00edm obdob\u00ed tak vysok\u00e9. Proto hled\u00e1me uji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed pozorov\u00e1n\u00edm chov\u00e1n\u00ed milovan\u00e9 osoby a hled\u00e1n\u00edm \u201eznamen\u00ed\u201c, kter\u00e1 by nazna\u010dovala na\u0161i l\u00e1sku.<\/p>\n\n\n\nZa t\u00edmto hled\u00e1n\u00edm se op\u011bt skr\u00fdv\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka sebev\u011bdom\u00ed: pokud je n\u00edzk\u00e9, \u010dlov\u011bk se bude (samoz\u0159ejm\u011b myln\u011b) c\u00edtit nezaslou\u017een\u00fd l\u00e1sky, kterou dost\u00e1v\u00e1. Proto neust\u00e1le hled\u00e1 d\u016fkaz l\u00e1sky u sv\u00e9ho partnera, aby se ujistil \u2013 s rizikem, \u017ee prohloub\u00ed sv\u00e9 obavy!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hled\u00e1n\u00ed tohoto d\u016fkazu l\u00e1sky m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9, kdy\u017e se vztahu neda\u0159\u00ed. Hluboce zamilovan\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk bude m\u00edt probl\u00e9m naj\u00edt d\u016fkaz l\u00e1sky u sv\u00e9ho partnera: je to bolestiv\u00e9 jak pro n\u011bj samotn\u00e9ho (proto\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd pozitivn\u00ed sign\u00e1l bude doprov\u00e1zen negativn\u00edm prot\u011bj\u0161kem a mno\u017estv\u00edm ot\u00e1zek, n\u011bkdy i bolestiv\u00fdch), tak i pro druh\u00e9ho partnera, kter\u00fd nevyhnuteln\u011b v ur\u010dit\u00e9m okam\u017eiku poc\u00edt\u00ed implicitn\u00ed tlak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed d\u016fkaz l\u00e1sky? Nepot\u0159ebovat ji\u2026
Pacientka, kter\u00e9 jsem se zeptal\/a: \u201eCo by pro v\u00e1s bylo nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edm d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky?\u201c, mi dala p\u0159ekvapivou odpov\u011b\u010f: \u201ePro m\u011b by nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edm d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky bylo nepot\u0159ebovat d\u016fkaz l\u00e1sky.\u201c Kdy\u017e jsem se j\u00ed zeptal\/a, co tato pon\u011bkud nejednozna\u010dn\u00e1 fr\u00e1ze znamen\u00e1, vysv\u011btlila mi, \u017ee pokud se c\u00edt\u00ed milovan\u00e1, pokud se ve sv\u00e9m vztahu c\u00edt\u00ed dob\u0159e, pokud se c\u00edt\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u011b, tak j\u00ed to naprosto sta\u010d\u00ed a \u017ee nepot\u0159ebuje ve\u010de\u0159e p\u0159i sv\u00ed\u010dk\u00e1ch, sladk\u00e1 slova ani drah\u00e9 \u0161perky. Tak\u00e9 mi p\u0159ipomn\u011bla posledn\u00ed sloku Zazieiny n\u00e1dhern\u00e9 p\u00edsn\u011b \u201eJ’envoie valser\u201c:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"N\u011bkdy \u201eMiluji t\u011b\u201c nesta\u010d\u00ed: abyste se ve vztahu c\u00edtili bezpe\u010dn\u011b, pot\u0159ebujete skute\u010dn\u00fd d\u016fkaz l\u00e1sky. Poj\u010fme se na to pod\u00edvat s Jeanem-Michelem Jakobowiczem, hypnoterapeutem \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5400,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5399","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5399","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5399"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5399\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5401,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5399\/revisions\/5401"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5399"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5399"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5399"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}