5 nen\u00e1padn\u00fdch znak\u016f, \u017ee m\u00e1 bohatou romantickou historii<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Romantick\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky formuj\u00ed to, jak \u010dlov\u011bk zvl\u00e1d\u00e1 \u017eivot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 si svou minulost nech\u00e1vaj\u00ed pro sebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jin\u00ed v\u0161ak mohou odhalit indicie prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm sv\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Tyto znaky neprokazuj\u00ed dlouhou romantickou historii, ale nab\u00edzej\u00ed vhled do toho, jak minul\u00e9 vztahy ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed sou\u010dasn\u00e9 postoje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pochopen\u00ed t\u011bchto znak\u016f s empati\u00ed pom\u016f\u017ee prohloubit va\u0161e pouto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zde je p\u011bt kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00fdch ukazatel\u016f, \u017ee \u017eena mohla m\u00edt v\u00edce vztah\u016f:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Siln\u00fd milostn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh:
Otev\u0159en\u011b hovo\u0159\u00ed o sp\u0159\u00edzn\u011bn\u00fdch du\u0161\u00edch, zlomen\u00e9m srdci a emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed dostupnosti, formovan\u00e9 minul\u00fdmi zku\u0161enostmi. Emo\u010dn\u00ed sebeuv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed:
Rozpozn\u00e1v\u00e1 varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, jasn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje pocity a na z\u00e1klad\u011b z\u00edskan\u00fdch lekc\u00ed si stanovuje zdrav\u00e9 hranice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010cty\u0159i mezi nimi:
Vid\u00ed jemn\u00e9 emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed sign\u00e1ly a sign\u00e1ly \u0159e\u010di t\u011bla, \u010dasto pramen\u00edc\u00ed z minul\u00fdch probl\u00e9m\u016f s d\u016fv\u011brou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Neidealizuje spojen\u00ed:
V\u00ed, \u017ee prav\u00e1 l\u00e1ska je o r\u016fstu, kompromisu a n\u011bkdy i bolesti \u2013 ne jen o poh\u00e1dk\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je spokojen\u00e1 s t\u00edm, \u017ee je sama:
V\u00e1\u017e\u00ed si osobn\u00edho klidu a nedefinuje se vztahem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Rozpozn\u00e1n\u00ed t\u011bchto znak\u016f s laskavost\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st k hlub\u0161\u00edmu porozum\u011bn\u00ed, nikoli k odsuzov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
ZN\u00c1MKY, \u017dE NEZAPOMN\u011aLA NA SV\u00c9HO B\u00ddVAL\u00c9HO
Nereaguje na va\u0161e pocity<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud se zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt odta\u017eit\u00e1 nebo necitliv\u00e1, kdy\u017e se s n\u00ed sna\u017e\u00edte spojit emocion\u00e1ln\u011b nebo fyzicky, m\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt proto, \u017ee je ke sv\u00e9mu b\u00fdval\u00e9mu st\u00e1le citov\u011b p\u0159ipout\u00e1na. Psychiatr Dr. Grant Brenner vysv\u011btluje, \u017ee n\u011bkdo, kdo se nevyrovnal s p\u0159edchoz\u00edm vztahem, se m\u016f\u017ee c\u00edtit provinile za intimn\u00ed vztah s nov\u00fdm partnerem \u2013 t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 jako by podv\u00e1d\u011bl sv\u00e9ho p\u0159edchoz\u00edho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
B\u011bhem intimn\u00edho styku se zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt roztr\u017eit\u00e1
Vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 se o\u010dn\u00edmu kontaktu nebo se zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt psychicky odpoutan\u00e1, kdy\u017e jste spolu? Podle Brennera m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt un\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed se b\u011bhem sexu siln\u00fdm ukazatelem toho, \u017ee je emocion\u00e1ln\u011b n\u011bkde jinde \u2013 mo\u017en\u00e1 znovu pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 vzpom\u00ednky na sv\u00e9ho b\u00fdval\u00e9ho, m\u00edsto aby byla s v\u00e1mi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uchov\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed suven\u00fdr\u016f od sv\u00e9ho b\u00fdval\u00e9ho partnera<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud si st\u00e1le uchov\u00e1v\u00e1 fotografie, d\u00e1rky nebo jin\u00e9 osobn\u00ed v\u011bci od sv\u00e9ho b\u00fdval\u00e9ho partnera \u2013 i pot\u00e9, co jste vyj\u00e1d\u0159ili nepohodl\u00ed \u2013 je to v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 znamen\u00ed, \u017ee se ho nevzdala. Brenner \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee neochota rozlou\u010dit se s t\u011bmito v\u011bcmi \u010dasto odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed odm\u00edtnut\u00ed j\u00edt d\u00e1l, zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b pokud se stav\u00ed do defenzivy nebo si vym\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed v\u00fdmluvy, aby si je nechala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010casto kontrolovat soci\u00e1ln\u00ed s\u00edt\u011b sv\u00e9ho b\u00fdval\u00e9ho partnera
Pokud pravideln\u011b kontroluje Instagram nebo Facebook sv\u00e9ho b\u00fdval\u00e9ho partnera \u2013 i jen aby \u201evid\u011bla, co d\u011blaj\u00ed\u201c \u2013 nen\u00ed to ne\u0161kodn\u00e1 zv\u011bdavost. Brenner varuje, \u017ee je to jasn\u00e9 znamen\u00ed, \u017ee je st\u00e1le zapojena do \u017eivota sv\u00e9ho b\u00fdval\u00e9ho partnera a ve skute\u010dnosti se nepokro\u010dila.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010cast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed mluven\u00ed o sv\u00e9m b\u00fdval\u00e9m partnerovi
Pokud se o sv\u00e9m b\u00fdval\u00e9m partnerovi za\u010dne \u010dast\u011bji zmi\u0148ovat \u2013 s odkazem na p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, zvyky nebo srovn\u00e1n\u00ed \u2013 m\u016f\u017ee se sna\u017eit vy\u0159e\u0161it nevy\u0159e\u0161en\u00e9 pocity. Terapeutka Heidi McBainov\u00e1 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee \u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed rozhovory po skon\u010den\u00ed s b\u00fdval\u00fdm partnerem jsou \u010dasto zn\u00e1mkou toho, \u017ee emo\u010dn\u00ed zpracov\u00e1n\u00ed st\u00e1le prob\u00edh\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Srovn\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u00e1s se sv\u00fdm b\u00fdval\u00fdm\/b\u00fdvalou<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I kdy\u017e se srovn\u00e1n\u00ed zdaj\u00ed lichotiv\u00e1 \u2013 jako \u201ejsi mnohem milej\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e m\u016fj\/moje b\u00fdval\u00fd\/b\u00fdval\u00e1\u201c \u2013 mohou odhalit, \u017ee jej\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00fd\/b\u00fdval\u00e1 je st\u00e1le st\u0159edem pozornosti. McBainov\u00e1 nazna\u010duje, \u017ee to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt jej\u00ed zp\u016fsob, jak se vyrovnat s vinou z p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00edch emoc\u00ed, a to zd\u016frazn\u011bn\u00edm va\u0161ich siln\u00fdch str\u00e1nek ve srovn\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O sv\u00e9m b\u00fdval\u00e9m\/b\u00fdval\u00e9 nechce v\u016fbec mluvit. \u00dapln\u00e9 ml\u010den\u00ed o sv\u00e9m b\u00fdval\u00e9m\/b\u00fdval\u00e9 \u2013 zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b kdy\u017e se zept\u00e1te \u2013 m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt stejn\u011b vypov\u00eddaj\u00edc\u00ed jako neust\u00e1l\u00e9 vzpom\u00edn\u00e1n\u00ed. Vztahov\u00e1 terapeutka Lena Derhallyov\u00e1 vysv\u011btluje, \u017ee vyh\u00fdb\u00e1n\u00ed se m\u016f\u017ee pramenit z nevy\u0159e\u0161en\u00e9 bolesti nebo touhy, kter\u00e9 je ochotna \u010delit nebo si ji p\u0159iznat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Plete si va\u0161e detaily s detaily o sv\u00e9m b\u00fdval\u00e9m\/b\u00fdval\u00e9. Pokud v\u00e1m n\u011bkdy p\u0159ipisuje vzpom\u00ednky nebo preference, kter\u00e9 jasn\u011b pat\u0159\u00ed jej\u00edmu b\u00fdval\u00e9mu\/b\u00fdval\u00e9, ukazuje to, \u017ee si ment\u00e1ln\u011b plete minulost s p\u0159\u00edtomnost\u00ed. Neust\u00e1l\u00e9 odkazov\u00e1n\u00ed na detaily z minul\u00e9ho vztahu nazna\u010duje, \u017ee m\u00e1 pot\u00ed\u017ee s v\u00e1mi z\u016fstat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"5 nen\u00e1padn\u00fdch znak\u016f, \u017ee m\u00e1 bohatou romantickou historii Romantick\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky formuj\u00ed to, jak \u010dlov\u011bk zvl\u00e1d\u00e1 \u017eivot. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 si svou minulost nech\u00e1vaj\u00ed pro \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":529,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-528","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/528","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=528"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/528\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":530,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/528\/revisions\/530"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/529"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=528"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=528"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=528"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}