N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 maj\u00ed talent prom\u011bnit ka\u017edou interakci v minov\u00e9 pole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Klinick\u00e1 psycholo\u017eka Julie Smith na TikToku odhaluje p\u0159\u00edznaky toxick\u00e9 emo\u010dn\u00ed nezralosti, abyste ji mohli l\u00e9pe pochopit a stanovit si hranice. P\u0159ej\u00edt na reklamu<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je to opakuj\u00edc\u00ed se pocit. C\u00edt\u00edte se po ka\u017ed\u00e9 interakci s touto osobou vy\u010derpan\u00ed a nuceni zva\u017eovat ka\u017ed\u00e9 slovo, abyste se vyhnuli v\u00fdbuchu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mo\u017en\u00e1 m\u00e1te co do \u010din\u011bn\u00ed s emocion\u00e1ln\u011b nezralou osobnost\u00ed. Takov\u00ed jedinci mohou vys\u00e1vat energii sv\u00e9ho partnera a je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 je rozpoznat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aby n\u00e1m pomohla vid\u011bt v\u011bci jasn\u011bji, Julie Smithov\u00e1, britsk\u00e1 klinick\u00e1 psycholo\u017eka s v\u00edce ne\u017e 2 miliony sleduj\u00edc\u00edch na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch, sd\u00edlela koncem dubna na TikToku vysv\u011btluj\u00edc\u00ed video. V n\u011bm odhaluje t\u0159i hlavn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edznaky tohoto toxick\u00e9ho typu osobnosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“To nejsem j\u00e1, to jsou jin\u00ed lid\u00e9”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u0161ichni zn\u00e1me \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd m\u00e1 v\u017edy dobrou v\u00fdmluvu, ur\u010den\u00e9ho vin\u00edka nebo n\u011bjakou vn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed trag\u00e9dii, aby vysv\u011btlil, pro\u010d nen\u00ed zodpov\u011bdn\u00fd. Chronick\u00e1 neschopnost \u201ep\u0159evz\u00edt odpov\u011bdnost,\u201c vysv\u011btluje Julie Smithov\u00e1. M\u00edsto toho, aby p\u0159evzali odpov\u011bdnost za sv\u00e9 \u010diny, maj\u00ed ne\u0161\u0165astnou tendenci \u201est\u00e1vat se z\u00e1visl\u00fdmi na lidech a vinit je ze v\u0161eho, co se pokaz\u00ed,\u201c pokra\u010duje klinick\u00e1 psycholo\u017eka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Romantick\u00fd konflikt? Je to chyba toho druh\u00e9ho? P\u0159e\u0161lap v pr\u00e1ci? Kolegov\u00e9 nenapl\u0148uj\u00ed sv\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Finan\u010dn\u00ed probl\u00e9my? Syst\u00e9m je proti n\u00ed. V d\u016fsledku toho nikdy nic nen\u00ed jej\u00ed chyba. Jak specialistka poznamen\u00e1v\u00e1, tato neust\u00e1l\u00e1 ob\u011b\u0165, p\u0159\u00edznak emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed nezralosti, je vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed a zp\u016fsobuje, \u017ee se lid\u00e9 kolem n\u00ed c\u00edt\u00ed provinile, mus\u00ed se vypo\u0159\u00e1dat s emocemi, kter\u00e9 nejsou jejich vlastn\u00ed, a c\u00edt\u00ed se vinni z toho, \u017ee ned\u011blaj\u00ed dost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nedostatek empatie a emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed vyd\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Druh\u00fd znak je o n\u011bco bolestiv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b kdy\u017e si ho v\u0161imnete. Je to naprost\u00fd nedostatek empatie. \u201eMaj\u00ed pot\u00ed\u017ee d\u00edvat se za hranice sv\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch tu\u017eeb a pot\u0159eb,\u201c vysv\u011btluje Julie Smithov\u00e1. Bohu\u017eel pro jejich okol\u00ed tento zp\u016fsob my\u0161len\u00ed p\u0159\u00edmo ovliv\u0148uje. \u201eTito lid\u00e9 pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed vyd\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed, podv\u00e1d\u011bj\u00ed v\u00e1s nebo v\u00e1s manipuluj\u00ed, aby v\u00e1s p\u0159im\u011bli d\u011blat to, co jim vyhovuje,\u201c varuje psycholo\u017eka. Z\u00e1v\u011br? Tito jedinci jsou vynikaj\u00edc\u00ed ve zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed situac\u00ed ve sv\u016fj prosp\u011bch, ani\u017e by zohled\u0148ovali dopad sv\u00e9ho jedn\u00e1n\u00ed na ostatn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nep\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 rozporu<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V neposledn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b varovn\u00fd sign\u00e1l: neschopnost zvl\u00e1dat rozpory. \u201eEmo\u010dn\u011b nezral\u00ed lid\u00e9 mohou b\u00fdt nep\u0159\u00e1tel\u0161t\u00ed, rychle se hn\u011bvat a \u00fato\u010dit na ty, kte\u0159\u00ed jim oponuj\u00ed nebo s nimi nesouhlas\u00ed,\u201c zd\u016fraz\u0148uje Julie Smithov\u00e1. Jednoduch\u00e1 pozn\u00e1mka, jin\u00fd n\u00e1zor a v\u00fdbuch hn\u011bvu jsou zaru\u010deny. V reakci na to jejich bl\u00edzc\u00ed obvykle chod\u00ed po k\u0159ehk\u00fdch ulit\u00e1ch a cenzuruj\u00ed se, aby se vyhnuli kriz\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak se vymanit z pasti toxick\u00e9ho vztahu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eB\u00fdt v bl\u00edzkosti n\u011bkoho, kdo je citov\u011b nezral\u00fd, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed,\u201c p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 Julie Smithov\u00e1. \u201eKdy\u017e milujete n\u011bkoho, kdo je citov\u011b nezral\u00fd, je p\u0159irozen\u00e9 v\u00e1hat mezi tvrdou snahou z\u00edskat jeho souhlas a n\u011bkdy i jeho odm\u00edtnut\u00edm z frustrace.\u201c Aby se psycholo\u017eka vymanila z t\u00e9to destruktivn\u00ed spir\u00e1ly, navrhuje nekompromisn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edstup. \u201eM\u00edsto toho, abyste se to\u010dili v kruhu [\u2026], mus\u00edte u\u010dinit radik\u00e1ln\u00ed rozhodnut\u00ed a p\u0159estat hledat uzn\u00e1n\u00ed a souhlas od n\u011bkoho, kdo nen\u00ed citov\u011b dostate\u010dn\u011b zral\u00fd na to, aby v\u00e1m ho dal,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A pokud st\u00e1le pochybujete o toxick\u00e9m potenci\u00e1lu milovan\u00e9 osoby, Julie Smithov\u00e1 povzbuzuje k sebereflexi. \u201eN\u011bkdy nejsnadn\u011bji rozpoznateln\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky jsou v na\u0161ich vlastn\u00edch reakc\u00edch,\u201c uzav\u00edr\u00e1. Proto\u017ee ne, nen\u00ed norm\u00e1ln\u00ed neust\u00e1le se c\u00edtit provinile, vy\u010derpan\u011b nebo smutn\u011b kv\u016fli n\u011bkomu, koho milujete. To nen\u00ed l\u00e1ska ani p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed a pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b to nen\u00ed ani zdrav\u00fd vztah.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 maj\u00ed talent prom\u011bnit ka\u017edou interakci v minov\u00e9 pole. Klinick\u00e1 psycholo\u017eka Julie Smith na TikToku odhaluje p\u0159\u00edznaky toxick\u00e9 emo\u010dn\u00ed nezralosti, abyste ji \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":434,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-433","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/433","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=433"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/433\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":435,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/433\/revisions\/435"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/434"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=433"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=433"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=433"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}