V\u0161imli jste si n\u011bkdy, jak \u010dasto si \u017eeny p\u0159ek\u0159\u00ed\u017e\u00ed nohy, kdy\u017e sed\u00ed \u2013 na sch\u016fzk\u00e1ch, p\u0159i sledov\u00e1n\u00ed televize, p\u0159i ve\u010de\u0159i nebo dokonce p\u0159i \u010dek\u00e1n\u00ed na k\u00e1vu? Zd\u00e1 se to tak mal\u00e9, tak automatick\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale co kdy\u017e toto nen\u00e1padn\u00e9 gesto nen\u00ed jen o pohodl\u00ed nebo zvyku?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Co kdy\u017e je p\u0159ek\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00ed nohou tich\u00fd jazyk \u2013 formovan\u00fd kulturou, psychologi\u00ed a stalet\u00edmi nevysloven\u00fdch o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poj\u010fme si rozlu\u0161tit tuto p\u00f3zu, kter\u00e1 je mnohem slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e se zd\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Od elegance k opatrnosti: Kulturn\u00ed odkaz.
Po generace byl zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm \u017eeny sed\u00ed, sledov\u00e1n, chv\u00e1len a dokonce i regulov\u00e1n. V z\u00e1padn\u00edch spole\u010dnostech je pozice se zk\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00fdma nohama dlouho spojov\u00e1na s eleganc\u00ed, vyrovnanost\u00ed a \u017eenskost\u00ed. P\u0159\u00edru\u010dky etikety z 18. stolet\u00ed ji chv\u00e1lily. Hollywood ji oslavoval. M\u00f3da ji posilovala.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nebyl to jen postoj \u2013 byl to v\u00fdkon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V mnoha kultur\u00e1ch se zk\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00ed nohou stalo nen\u00e1padn\u00fdm projevem skromnosti nebo elegance \u2013 fyzick\u00fdm ekvivalentem tich\u00e9ho mluven\u00ed. Ale tady je zvrat: v jin\u00fdch regionech, zejm\u00e9na v \u010d\u00e1stech Asie nebo Bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho v\u00fdchodu, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt zk\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00ed nohou vn\u00edm\u00e1no jako hrub\u00e9, arogantn\u00ed nebo dokonce nezdvo\u0159il\u00e9 \u2013 zejm\u00e9na ve form\u00e1ln\u00edch nebo mu\u017esk\u00fdch situac\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Co to znamen\u00e1? Znamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee i jednoduch\u00e9 gesto, jako je p\u0159ek\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00ed nohou, je pln\u00e9 v\u00fdznamu \u2013 a tento v\u00fdznam se dramaticky m\u011bn\u00ed v z\u00e1vislosti na tom, kde jste a kdo se d\u00edv\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Psychologie p\u00f3zy
Nyn\u00ed se bl\u00ed\u017ee pod\u00edvejme na kulturu, mysl a t\u011blo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Psychologov\u00e9 tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ek\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00ed nohou m\u016f\u017ee signalizovat sm\u011bs emocion\u00e1ln\u00edch sign\u00e1l\u016f \u2013 n\u011bkter\u00e9 v\u011bdom\u00e9, n\u011bkter\u00e9 hluboce podv\u011bdom\u00e9. Pro mnoho \u017een je to zp\u016fsob, jak:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vytv\u00e1\u0159en\u00ed osobn\u00ed bubliny v p\u0159epln\u011bn\u00fdch nebo ve\u0159ejn\u00fdch m\u00edstech.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vys\u00edl\u00e1n\u00ed jemn\u00fdch sign\u00e1l\u016f sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, citlivosti nebo rezervovanosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Omezen\u00ed expozice a znovuz\u00edsk\u00e1n\u00ed kontroly v prost\u0159ed\u00edch, kter\u00e1 se mohou zd\u00e1t nadm\u011brn\u011b stimuluj\u00edc\u00ed nebo v nich\u017e dominuj\u00ed mu\u017ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Z pohledu \u0159e\u010di t\u011bla m\u016f\u017ee zk\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00ed nohou signalizovat sebeobranu nebo nejistotu, zat\u00edmco uvoln\u011bn\u00e9 nebo asymetrick\u00e9 zk\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00ed nohou m\u016f\u017ee nazna\u010dovat relaxaci nebo tichou dominanci. P\u0159ek\u0159\u00ed\u017e\u00edte nohy sm\u011brem k n\u011bkomu? Jste zaujat\u00ed. P\u0159ek\u0159\u00ed\u017e\u00edte je? Mo\u017en\u00e1 se od sebe ti\u0161e distancujete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je to podv\u011bdom\u00fd tanec \u2013 takov\u00fd, kter\u00fd mnoho \u017een zvl\u00e1dlo, ani\u017e by si to uv\u011bdomovaly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Co v\u00e1m \u0159eknou nohy, ne\u017e promluv\u00edte<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u0159ek\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00ed nohou neodr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed jen to, jak se \u017eena c\u00edt\u00ed \u2013 m\u016f\u017ee to ovlivnit i to, jak je vn\u00edm\u00e1na. A d\u016fsledky jsou v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e si mysl\u00edte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V profesion\u00e1ln\u00edm sv\u011bt\u011b m\u00e1 \u0159e\u010d t\u011bla st\u00e1le velk\u00fd vliv na to, jak jsou \u017eeny posuzov\u00e1ny:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zk\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00e9 nohy a rezervovan\u00e9 postoje mohou b\u00fdt vn\u00edm\u00e1ny jako delik\u00e1tn\u00ed nebo m\u00e9n\u011b autoritativn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nezk\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00e9 nohy nebo rozta\u017een\u00e9 p\u00f3zy mohou b\u00fdt vn\u00edm\u00e1ny jako asertivn\u00ed \u2013 nebo, v z\u00e1vislosti na div\u00e1kovi, \u201ene\u017eensk\u00e9\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Toto je klasick\u00e1 dvojit\u00e1 kravata. Bu\u010fte elegantn\u00ed, ale ne p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 jemn\u00e1. Bu\u010fte sebev\u011bdom\u00e1, ale ne p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 odv\u00e1\u017en\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A tady je h\u00e1\u010dek: mu\u017ei nejsou posuzov\u00e1ni stejn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prolomen\u00ed vzoru, jeden p\u0159\u00edstup po druh\u00e9m
Co s t\u00edm v\u0161\u00edm tedy d\u011blat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Za\u010dneme t\u00edm, \u017ee si uv\u011bdom\u00edme, \u017ee zk\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00ed nohou \u2013 nebo ne \u2013 je jen na v\u00e1s. Je to zvyk, ano, ale je to tak\u00e9 odraz desetilet\u00ed (dokonce i stalet\u00ed) tich\u00e9ho spole\u010densk\u00e9ho formov\u00e1n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se \u017een\u00e1m \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, aby \u201esed\u011bly jako d\u00e1my\u201c, nejen\u017ee si zlep\u0161uj\u00ed dr\u017een\u00ed t\u011bla \u2013 jsou formov\u00e1ny do symbol\u016f p\u0159ijateln\u00e9 \u017eenskosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale sv\u011bt se m\u011bn\u00ed. Dnes m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt dr\u017een\u00ed t\u011bla formou tich\u00e9 vzpoury. Volba sed\u011bt se zk\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00fdma nohama, bez zk\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00e9ho nebo pohodln\u011b rozkro\u010den\u00e9ho u\u017e nen\u00ed jen ot\u00e1zkou etikety \u2013 je to prohl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eJe to moje t\u011blo. Je to m\u016fj prostor. Budu si sed\u011bt, jak chci.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jedno mal\u00e9 gesto, tolik p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tak\u017ee a\u017e p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b uvid\u00edte \u017eenu se zk\u0159\u00ed\u017een\u00fdma nohama, ned\u00edvejte se jen na jej\u00ed postoj \u2013 vn\u00edmejte p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. M\u016f\u017ee se jednat o pohodl\u00ed, sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, \u00fazkost, styl, bezpe\u010d\u00ed nebo odpor. M\u016f\u017ee \u0159\u00edkat: \u201eJsem tady, ale nep\u0159ibli\u017euj se moc.\u201c Nebo: \u201eDnes se ve sv\u00e9 k\u016f\u017ei c\u00edt\u00edm dob\u0159e.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkdy i ta nejjemn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed gesta mluv\u00ed nejhlasit\u011bji \u2013 pokud um\u00edte naslouchat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"V\u0161imli jste si n\u011bkdy, jak \u010dasto si \u017eeny p\u0159ek\u0159\u00ed\u017e\u00ed nohy, kdy\u017e sed\u00ed \u2013 na sch\u016fzk\u00e1ch, p\u0159i sledov\u00e1n\u00ed televize, p\u0159i ve\u010de\u0159i nebo dokonce p\u0159i \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3272,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3271","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3271","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3271"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3271\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3273,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3271\/revisions\/3273"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3271"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3271"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3271"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}