Odlou\u010den\u00ed od d\u011bt\u00ed nebo vnou\u010dat\u2026 V \u0161esti p\u0159\u00edpadech z deseti pom\u00e1h\u00e1 rodinn\u00e1 mediace konflikt vy\u0159e\u0161it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je to rychlej\u0161\u00ed, levn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a m\u00e9n\u011b stresuj\u00edc\u00ed ne\u017e j\u00edt k soudu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201ePo dvou letech bez kontaktu jsem p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dila svou dceru, aby se zapojila do rodinn\u00e9 mediace.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201ePo t\u0159ech sezen\u00edch se n\u00e1m poda\u0159ilo znovu nav\u00e1zat kontakt a j\u00e1 m\u016f\u017eu zase vid\u011bt sv\u00e1 vnou\u010data<\/a> ,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 s nad\u0161en\u00edm 68let\u00e1 H\u00e9l\u00e8ne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tak\u00e9 se pot\u00fdk\u00e1te s rodinn\u00fdmi konflikty? Pro\u010d nezkusit rodinnou mediaci<\/a> , jako to ud\u011blala H\u00e9l\u00e8ne? Podle CAF (Francouzsk\u00fd fond rodinn\u00fdch d\u00e1vek) vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 mediaci ka\u017edoro\u010dn\u011b t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 17 000 rodin a 59 % z nich dos\u00e1hne dohody.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201eH\u00e9l\u00e8ne hl\u00eddala vnou\u010data ka\u017edou st\u0159edu, dokud j\u00ed dcera ne\u0159ekla, \u017ee u\u017e nem\u016f\u017ee sn\u00e1\u0161et lekce rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed a<\/a> nep\u0159eru\u0161ila s nimi ve\u0161ker\u00fd kontakt. Michel, kter\u00fd je \u010dty\u0159i roky vdovec, se sv\u00fdm synem u\u017e t\u0159i roky nem\u00e1 kontakt: \u017eenu, kter\u00e1 mu \u201anahradila\u2018 matku, nep\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Monique Desmedtov\u00e1, rodinn\u00e1 medi\u00e1torka v Evropsk\u00e9 \u0161kole pro prarodi\u010de. Uv\u00e1d\u00ed tak\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edklad Monique, jej\u00ed\u017e syn zem\u0159el na rakovinu a kter\u00e1 sv\u00e1 vnou\u010data nevid\u011bla od doby, kdy jej\u00ed snacha odjela z oblasti. Nebo \u00c9milie, kter\u00e1 byla kritick\u00e1, kdy\u017e ji dcera sezn\u00e1mila se sv\u00fdm partnerem: v d\u016fsledku toho j\u00ed ani sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b nesezn\u00e1mil!<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201eB\u011bhem prvn\u00edho setk\u00e1n\u00ed jsou prarodi\u010de \u010dasto tak rozru\u0161en\u00ed, \u017ee se cht\u011bj\u00ed obr\u00e1tit na soud,\u201c vysv\u011btluje Monique Desmedtov\u00e1. \u201eVyslechneme si jejich p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy a pak jim pom\u016f\u017eeme vid\u011bt \u0161ir\u0161\u00ed souvislosti. Pak spole\u010dn\u011b vymysl\u00edme \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed \u2013 \u010dasto naps\u00e1n\u00edm dopisu, kter\u00fd je m\u00e9n\u011b ru\u0161iv\u00fd ne\u017e telefon\u00e1t \u2013 abychom d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dili k \u00fa\u010dasti na mediaci.\u201c Z\u00e1sadn\u00ed krok… kter\u00fd v polovin\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f sel\u017ee. Odborn\u00e1 rada? \u201eNevym\u00e1hejte sv\u00e1 pr\u00e1va v\u016f\u010di sv\u00fdm vnou\u010dat\u016fm, ale zd\u016frazn\u011bte, co mohou ta nejmen\u0161\u00ed z\u00edskat setk\u00e1n\u00edm s v\u00e1mi,\u201c rad\u00ed Monique Desmedtov\u00e1. \u201ePokud do\u0161lo k chyb\u00e1m, uznejte je. A ne\u017e se zm\u00edn\u00edte o vnou\u010datech, zd\u016frazn\u011bte setk\u00e1n\u00ed s vlastn\u00edmi d\u011btmi!\u201c A kone\u010dn\u011b, abyste projevili dobrou v\u016fli, vyberte si medi\u00e1tora<\/a> pobl\u00ed\u017e domova d\u00edt\u011bte. Pokud d\u00edt\u011b medi\u00e1torovi zavol\u00e1, aby si domluvilo sch\u016fzku, \u00fasp\u011bch! Ka\u017ed\u00fd si kone\u010dn\u011b m\u016f\u017ee vyslechnout sv\u00e9 pocity, ani\u017e by nechal emoce p\u0159emoci. Stejn\u011b jako H\u00e9l\u00e8ne: \u201eB\u011bhem prvn\u00edho setk\u00e1n\u00ed moje dcera \u017eiv\u011b vyj\u00e1d\u0159ila, co v ka\u017ed\u00e9 sc\u00e9n\u011b c\u00edtila. D\u00edky parafr\u00e1zov\u00e1n\u00ed medi\u00e1torky jsem j\u00ed mohla naslouchat, ani\u017e bych p\u0159ehnan\u011b reagovala. Kdybychom byly samy, nebylo by to mo\u017en\u00e9,\u201c p\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1. B\u011bhem sezen\u00ed \u2013 od dvou do deseti, v z\u00e1vislosti na p\u0159\u00edpadu \u2013 ka\u017ed\u00e1 strana ch\u00e1pe realitu t\u00e9 druh\u00e9 a nast\u00edn\u00ed se \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. \u201eNejde o to z\u00edskat trval\u00e9 pr\u00e1vo v\u00eddat vnou\u010data, ale o to dohodnout se na zp\u016fsobech budov\u00e1n\u00ed vztahu: volat jim, \u010das od \u010dasu je zv\u00e1t…\u201c vysv\u011btluje Monique Desmedt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Frustrovan\u00ed po ne\u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9m pokusu o mediaci se n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed prarodi\u010de dom\u00e1haj\u00ed sv\u00fdch pr\u00e1v. A\u010dkoli \u010dl\u00e1nek 371-4 francouzsk\u00e9ho ob\u010dansk\u00e9ho z\u00e1kon\u00edku uzn\u00e1v\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo d\u011bt\u00ed na udr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed kontaktu se sv\u00fdmi prarodi\u010di (ale ne naopak!) a pr\u00e1vo na n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy lze z\u00edskat od soudce rodinn\u00e9ho soudu, je nutn\u00e1 opatrnost: p\u0159edvol\u00e1n\u00ed konflikty eskaluje, d\u016frazn\u011b se doporu\u010duje pr\u00e1vn\u00ed pomoc (po\u010d\u00edtejte s n\u00e1klady nejm\u00e9n\u011b 3 000 EUR), soudce \u010dasto na\u0159\u00edd\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00ed \u0161et\u0159en\u00ed a dokonce i psychiatrick\u00e9 vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed (aby si vyslechl vnou\u010data) a proces m\u016f\u017ee trvat t\u0159i roky! A kone\u010dn\u011b, soudce \u010dasto ud\u011bl\u00ed jen m\u00e1lo: n\u011bkdy jen pr\u00e1vo na korespondenci, v nejlep\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b n\u011bkolik hodin m\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u011b. S v\u00fdjimkou nejz\u00e1va\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00edch p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f je \u010dasto lep\u0161\u00ed zachovat sm\u00ed\u0159liv\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup, i kdy\u017e to znamen\u00e1 dal\u0161\u00ed pokus o mediaci o n\u011bkolik m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f pozd\u011bji. \u201eN\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011bti p\u0159ijmou druhou \u017e\u00e1dost… aby my\u0161lenka mohla dozr\u00e1t,\u201c poznamen\u00e1v\u00e1 Monique Desmedt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u00edky Nathalie B\u00e9ziat-Langlois, rodinn\u00e9 medi\u00e1torce, Espace famille m\u00e9diation (Olga-Spitzer Association, Paris XIIe), Brigitte Gary, rodinn\u00e9 medi\u00e1torce v Union d\u00e9partementale des Associations familiales de Paris a Monique Desmedt, rodinn\u00e9 medi\u00e1torce na \u00c9cole des grands-parents europ\u00e9ens.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Odlou\u010den\u00ed od d\u011bt\u00ed nebo vnou\u010dat\u2026 V \u0161esti p\u0159\u00edpadech z deseti pom\u00e1h\u00e1 rodinn\u00e1 mediace konflikt vy\u0159e\u0161it. Je to rychlej\u0161\u00ed, levn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a m\u00e9n\u011b stresuj\u00edc\u00ed ne\u017e \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2431,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2430","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2430","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2430"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2430\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2432,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2430\/revisions\/2432"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2431"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2430"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2430"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2430"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Situace<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Zprost\u0159edkov\u00e1n\u00ed<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
V p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b selh\u00e1n\u00ed<\/h2>\n\n\n\n