N\u011bkdy si klademe ot\u00e1zku, jak dlouho m\u016f\u017ee \u017eena \u017e\u00edt bez skute\u010dn\u00e9 bl\u00edzkosti, n\u011bhy a hlub\u0161\u00edho emocion\u00e1ln\u00edho spojen\u00ed. Jednozna\u010dn\u00e1 odpov\u011b\u010f neexistuje. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eena m\u00e1 jin\u00e9 pot\u0159eby, jinou \u017eivotn\u00ed zku\u0161enost i jin\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 samotu a vztahy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010clov\u011bk se dok\u00e1\u017ee p\u0159izp\u016fsobit t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 v\u0161emu. To ale neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee mu nic nechyb\u00ed. Bl\u00edzkost toti\u017e nen\u00ed jen fyzick\u00fd kontakt. Je to pocit, \u017ee n\u00e1m n\u011bkdo rozum\u00ed, vn\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1s, naslouch\u00e1 n\u00e1m a \u017ee vedle n\u011bkoho m\u016f\u017eeme b\u00fdt sami sebou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. \u017d\u00edt bez bl\u00edzkosti lze, ale n\u011bco m\u016f\u017ee postupn\u011b chyb\u011bt<\/strong> 2. Pot\u0159eba b\u00fdt vysly\u0161ena nezmiz\u00ed<\/strong> 3. Dlouh\u00fd odstup m\u016f\u017ee vytv\u00e1\u0159et vnit\u0159n\u00ed bari\u00e9ry<\/strong> 4. Touha po n\u011bze se m\u016f\u017ee zti\u0161it, ale nemus\u00ed zmizet<\/strong> 5. Emo\u010dn\u00ed osam\u011blost m\u016f\u017ee ovlivnit celkovou pohodu<\/strong> 6. Energie se \u010dasto p\u0159esune do jin\u00fdch oblast\u00ed \u017eivota<\/strong> 7. Dlouhodob\u00e1 samota m\u016f\u017ee zm\u011bnit zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bk vn\u00edm\u00e1 s\u00e1m sebe<\/strong> 8. P\u0159izp\u016fsobit se lze, ale n\u011bkdy za cenu v\u011bt\u0161\u00edho citov\u00e9ho odstupu<\/strong> 9. Skute\u010dn\u00e1 bl\u00edzkost nen\u00ed pouze fyzick\u00e1<\/strong> 10. Neexistuje \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 p\u0159esn\u00e1 hranice<\/strong> Bl\u00edzkost nen\u00ed povinnost ani podm\u00ednka \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 v\u0161ak pro mnoho lid\u00ed p\u0159edstavuje n\u011bco velmi p\u0159irozen\u00e9ho \u2014 mo\u017enost sd\u00edlet radost, nejistotu, ticho i oby\u010dejn\u00e9 ka\u017edodenn\u00ed chv\u00edle s n\u011bk\u00fdm, komu d\u016fv\u011b\u0159uj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A mo\u017en\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b v tom spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 jej\u00ed skute\u010dn\u00e1 hodnota: ne v tom, \u017ee bez n\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk nem\u016f\u017ee \u017e\u00edt, ale v tom, \u017ee s opravdov\u00fdm porozum\u011bn\u00edm, n\u011bhou a bezpe\u010d\u00edm m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt \u017eivot o n\u011bco hlub\u0161\u00ed a kr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"N\u011bkdy si klademe ot\u00e1zku, jak dlouho m\u016f\u017ee \u017eena \u017e\u00edt bez skute\u010dn\u00e9 bl\u00edzkosti, n\u011bhy a hlub\u0161\u00edho emocion\u00e1ln\u00edho spojen\u00ed. Jednozna\u010dn\u00e1 odpov\u011b\u010f neexistuje. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eena m\u00e1 \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18781,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18780","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18780","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18780"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18780\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18782,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18780\/revisions\/18782"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/18781"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18780"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18780"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18780"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\u017dena m\u016f\u017ee dlouhou dobu fungovat samostatn\u011b, pracovat, starat se o rodinu, rozv\u00edjet sv\u00e9 z\u00e1jmy a \u017e\u00edt plnohodnotn\u00fd \u017eivot. P\u0159esto se n\u011bkdy m\u016f\u017ee objevit tich\u00fd pocit, \u017ee chyb\u00ed n\u011bkdo, s k\u00fdm by mohla sd\u00edlet sv\u00e9 nejhlub\u0161\u00ed my\u0161lenky a emoce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkdy nen\u00ed nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed dotek, ale pocit, \u017ee n\u00e1s n\u011bkdo skute\u010dn\u011b poslouch\u00e1. V\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee jsme pro druh\u00e9ho d\u016fle\u017eit\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00e1s respektuje a zaj\u00edm\u00e1 se o to, co pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me, m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt obrovskou hodnotu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010c\u00edm d\u00e9le \u010dlov\u011bk \u017eije bez hlub\u0161\u00edho vztahov\u00e9ho spojen\u00ed, t\u00edm obt\u00ed\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt znovu n\u011bkomu otev\u0159\u00edt sv\u00e9 srdce. Ne proto, \u017ee by u\u017e bl\u00edzkost nepot\u0159eboval, ale proto\u017ee si zvykne chr\u00e1nit vlastn\u00ed citlivost p\u0159ed mo\u017en\u00fdm zklam\u00e1n\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pot\u0159eba objet\u00ed, laskav\u00e9ho slova nebo pocitu bezpe\u010d\u00ed se n\u011bkdy na dlouhou dobu st\u00e1hne do pozad\u00ed. \u010clov\u011bk si zvykne bez n\u00ed \u017e\u00edt. V ur\u010dit\u00fdch chv\u00edl\u00edch se v\u0161ak m\u016f\u017ee znovu ozvat \u2014 nen\u00e1padn\u011b, ale velmi skute\u010dn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e \u010dlov\u011bku dlouhodob\u011b chyb\u00ed n\u011bkdo, komu se m\u016f\u017ee sv\u011b\u0159it a vedle koho se c\u00edt\u00ed bezpe\u010dn\u011b, m\u016f\u017ee se objevit v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed nap\u011bt\u00ed, smutek nebo pocit vnit\u0159n\u00ed pr\u00e1zdnoty. Ka\u017ed\u00fd to v\u0161ak pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 jinak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkter\u00e9 \u017eeny svou pozornost v\u011bnuj\u00ed pr\u00e1ci, d\u011btem, p\u0159\u00e1tel\u016fm, cestov\u00e1n\u00ed, sportu nebo osobn\u00edmu rozvoji. Tyto oblasti mohou p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161et velkou radost a pocit napln\u011bn\u00ed. Nejde o n\u00e1hradu vztahu, ale o jin\u00e9 zdroje smyslu a spokojenosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud \u017een\u011b dlouho chyb\u00ed pocit p\u0159ijet\u00ed, uzn\u00e1n\u00ed nebo n\u011b\u010d\u00ed bl\u00edzkosti, m\u016f\u017ee n\u011bkdy za\u010d\u00edt pochybovat o sv\u00e9 hodnot\u011b. Proto je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 nezakl\u00e1dat vlastn\u00ed sebe\u00factu pouze na tom, zda m\u00e1me partnera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010clov\u011bk se m\u016f\u017ee nau\u010dit nikoho nepot\u0159ebovat. M\u016f\u017ee p\u016fsobit siln\u011b, nez\u00e1visle a nedotknuteln\u011b. N\u011bkdy je v\u0161ak tato s\u00edla z\u00e1rove\u0148 obrann\u00fdm mechanismem, kter\u00fd m\u00e1 zabr\u00e1nit dal\u0161\u00edmu zran\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkdy ji tvo\u0159\u00ed oby\u010dejn\u00e9 v\u011bci: dlouh\u00fd rozhovor ve\u010der, up\u0159\u00edmn\u00fd pohled, objet\u00ed ve spr\u00e1vnou chv\u00edli, spole\u010dn\u00fd sm\u00edch nebo prost\u00e9 v\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee vedle n\u00e1s n\u011bkdo stoj\u00ed. Pr\u00e1v\u011b takov\u00e9 drobnosti b\u00fdvaj\u00ed ve vztaz\u00edch nejcenn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nelze \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee po ur\u010dit\u00e9m po\u010dtu m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f nebo let \u017eena bez bl\u00edzkosti p\u0159estane b\u00fdt spokojen\u00e1. N\u011bkter\u00e9 \u017eeny mohou b\u00fdt dlouhodob\u011b \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 samy, jin\u00e9 tou\u017e\u00ed po hlubok\u00e9m vztahu mnohem intenzivn\u011bji. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eivotn\u00ed cesta je jin\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n