Tuto ot\u00e1zku \u010dasto sl\u00fdch\u00e1me v rozhovorech s p\u0159\u00e1teli, u k\u00e1vy nebo v p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvc\u00edch na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak dlouho v \u017eivot\u011b pot\u0159ebujeme mu\u017ee<\/em> ? Ale v kone\u010dn\u00e9m d\u016fsledku, je to opravdu ot\u00e1zka v\u011bku?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dnes m\u016f\u017ee \u017eena d\u011blat cokoli: pracovat, cestovat, starat se o sebe, vychov\u00e1vat d\u011bti a v\u00e9st dom\u00e1cnost. Doby, kdy mu\u017e musel \u201eotev\u00edrat sklenici s marmel\u00e1dou\u201c nebo \u201enosit krabice\u201c, jsou pry\u010d. Ale co nelze nahradit, je spojen\u00ed, intimita a pocit, \u017ee v n\u011b\u010d\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b m\u00e1te zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed m\u00edsto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ale ten \u201edruh\u00fd\u201c \u010dlov\u011bk to st\u00e1le mus\u00ed b\u00fdt schopen poskytnout. Proto\u017ee v kone\u010dn\u00e9m d\u016fsledku je lep\u0161\u00ed b\u00fdt s\u00e1m ne\u017e ve \u0161patn\u00e9 spole\u010dnosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Priority se \u010dasem m\u011bn\u00ed. Ve 20 letech si mo\u017en\u00e1 budete p\u0159\u00e1t b\u00fdt vybr\u00e1ni, c\u00edtit se milov\u00e1ni. Ve 40, 60 nebo 70 se nau\u010d\u00edte vyb\u00edrat. A to je opravdov\u00e1 svoboda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u011bkter\u00e9 \u017eeny st\u00e1le c\u00edt\u00ed pot\u0159ebu l\u00e1skypln\u00e9ho spojen\u00ed a sd\u00edlen\u00e9 n\u011bhy. Jin\u00e9 si cen\u00ed sv\u00e9 nez\u00e1vislosti, tempa a klidu. A v\u0161echny tyto zp\u016fsoby \u017eivota jsou platn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Osam\u011blost n\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011bs\u00ed, jin\u00e9 uklid\u0148uje. N\u011bkdo vid\u00ed pr\u00e1zdn\u00fd byt a pomysl\u00ed si: \u201eNikdo na m\u011b ne\u010dek\u00e1.\u201c Jin\u00ed si naopak svobodu u\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed: \u201eKone\u010dn\u011b si m\u016f\u017eu u\u017e\u00edvat klidu a m\u00edru.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nen\u00ed to v\u011bk, co m\u011bn\u00ed v\u0161echno, ale p\u0159\u00edstup.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u011bkdy ano. Pro n\u011b\u017en\u00e9 gesto, starostliv\u00e9 gesto, ut\u011b\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtomnost. Ale tato l\u00e1ska m\u016f\u017ee poch\u00e1zet i od p\u0159\u00edtele, dosp\u011bl\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte, bratra, sestry nebo dokonce laskav\u00e9ho souseda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A n\u011bkdy ne. Proto\u017ee n\u011bkter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edtomnosti jsou sp\u00ed\u0161e vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed ne\u017e uklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed. Proto\u017ee existuj\u00ed ticha, kter\u00e1 jsou t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e jsou sd\u00edlena, ne\u017e kdy\u017e jsou sd\u00edlena o samot\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eena m\u00e1 sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed rytmus, svou energii, sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby. Neexistuje univerz\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u0159\u00edstup. N\u011bkter\u00e9 se da\u0159\u00ed sd\u00edlen\u00ed, jin\u00e9 samot\u011b. D\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je sebe\u00facta a naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed tomu, co v\u00e1m d\u011bl\u00e1 dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Postupem \u010dasu se nau\u010d\u00edme \u0159\u00edkat \u201ene\u201c: \u201ene\u201c jednostrann\u00fdm vztah\u016fm, \u201ene\u201c t\u00edsniv\u00e9mu ml\u010den\u00ed, \u201ene\u201c kompromis\u016fm, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s od sebe navz\u00e1jem vzdaluj\u00ed. Vstup mu\u017ee do tohoto vyvolen\u00e9ho \u017eivota je obohacen\u00ed, nikoli nutnost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A\u017e sto let, pokud l\u00e1ska existuje. A\u017e t\u0159icet, pokud si zvol\u00edme jinou cestu. Nebo mo\u017en\u00e1 nikdy, pokud najdeme \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed v klidn\u00e9m tichu, vrn\u00edc\u00ed ko\u010dce a hork\u00e9m \u0161\u00e1lku \u010daje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Skute\u010dn\u00e1 odpov\u011b\u010f? Dokud to chce\u0161 TY. Nic v\u00edc, nic m\u00ed\u0148. A tato volba, a\u0165 u\u017e je jak\u00e1koli, si zaslou\u017e\u00ed ve\u0161kerou \u00factu sv\u011bta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Tuto ot\u00e1zku \u010dasto sl\u00fdch\u00e1me v rozhovorech s p\u0159\u00e1teli, u k\u00e1vy nebo v p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvc\u00edch na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch. Jak dlouho v \u017eivot\u011b pot\u0159ebujeme mu\u017ee ? Ale v \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16006,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16005","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16005","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16005"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16005\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16007,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16005\/revisions\/16007"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/16006"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16005"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16005"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16005"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Pot\u0159eba nebo touha: dv\u011b zcela odli\u0161n\u00e9 reality<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Mu\u017e m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt oporou\u2026 nebo p\u0159\u00edt\u011b\u017e\u00ed<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
S\u00e1m nebo svobodn\u00fd? V\u0161e z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na va\u0161em \u00fahlu pohledu.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Budeme n\u011bkdy pot\u0159ebovat mu\u017ee?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Volba je na v\u00e1s.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\u00dapln\u00e1 \u017eena na svou \u201edruhou polovi\u010dku\u201c ne\u010dek\u00e1.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Do jak\u00e9ho v\u011bku pot\u0159ebujeme mu\u017ee?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n