A\u010dkoli mnoho \u017een st\u00e1le zd\u016fraz\u0148uje, \u017ee je p\u0159itahuj\u00ed zralej\u0161\u00ed partnerky, a mu\u017ei se netaj\u00ed sympatiemi k mlad\u0161\u00edm \u017een\u00e1m, je st\u00e1le z\u0159ejm\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee se tyto vzorce pomalu m\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00fdzkum vztah\u016f s v\u00fdrazn\u00fdm v\u011bkov\u00fdm rozd\u00edlem ukazuje zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 korelace, kter\u00e9 na jedn\u00e9 stran\u011b potvrzuj\u00ed stereotypy, a na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b je st\u00e1le v\u00edce bo\u0159\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e britsk\u00e1 seznamka po\u017e\u00e1dala tis\u00edc nezadan\u00fdch, aby uvedli doln\u00ed a horn\u00ed v\u011bkovou hranici sv\u00e9ho ide\u00e1ln\u00edho partnera, v\u00fdsledky pr\u016fzkumu uk\u00e1zaly, \u017ee tradi\u010dn\u00ed vzorce maj\u00ed st\u00e1le siln\u00fd vliv na realitu, jak uvedl \u010dasopis Stylist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uk\u00e1zalo se, \u017ee mu\u017ei si \u010dast\u011bji vyb\u00edraj\u00ed \u017eeny mlad\u0161\u00ed, maxim\u00e1ln\u011b o deset let, a akceptuj\u00ed partnerky, kter\u00e9 nejsou star\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e p\u011bt let, zat\u00edmco \u017eeny otev\u0159en\u011b prohla\u0161uj\u00ed, \u017ee d\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ednost mu\u017e\u016fm v pr\u016fm\u011bru o \u0161est let star\u0161\u00edm a zhruba o p\u011bt let mlad\u0161\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Na prvn\u00ed pohled se tento p\u0159\u00edstup m\u016f\u017ee jevit jako opakov\u00e1n\u00ed star\u00fdch vzorc\u016f, ale v praxi st\u00e1le v\u00edce lid\u00ed vstupuje do vztah\u016f, kde je v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl opravdu velk\u00fd a nebr\u00e1n\u00ed budov\u00e1n\u00ed pouta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Florence, kter\u00e9 bylo dvacet sedm let, kdy\u017e za\u010dala bou\u0159liv\u00fd rom\u00e1nek s o jedna\u010dty\u0159icet let star\u0161\u00edm kolegou z pr\u00e1ce, vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 na vztah se sm\u011bsic\u00ed nostalgie a sm\u00edchu a zd\u016fraz\u0148uje, \u017ee zku\u0161enosti a zralost jej\u00edho partnera j\u00ed d\u00e1valy pocit v\u00fdjime\u010dnosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u0159esto\u017ee jejich vztah byl kr\u00e1sn\u00fd a trval deset m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f, jejich rozd\u00edly se uk\u00e1zaly jako nep\u0159ekonateln\u00e1 p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eka, proto\u017ee on m\u011bl d\u00edt\u011b a domov a ona tou\u017eila cestovat a za\u010d\u00edt znovu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b je Florence t\u0159icet jedna let a je \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 s mu\u017eem sv\u00e9ho v\u011bku, co\u017e zd\u016fraz\u0148uje, jak sd\u00edlen\u00e9 pot\u0159eby a touhy zjednodu\u0161uj\u00ed a zjem\u0148uj\u00ed ka\u017edodenn\u00ed \u017eivot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Podobn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy se st\u00e1vaj\u00ed \u010dasto, proto\u017ee fascinace mnohem star\u0161\u00edm nebo mlad\u0161\u00edm partnerem m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt v\u00fdsledkem jak n\u00e1hody, tak hlub\u0161\u00edch tu\u017eeb \u010di projekc\u00ed, kdy \u017eeny hledaj\u00ed u sv\u00e9ho partnera otcovsk\u00e9 vlastnosti a mu\u017ei tou\u017e\u00ed po ml\u00e1d\u00ed a sv\u011b\u017eesti vedle sebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u011bta\u010dty\u0159icetiletou C\u00e9line v\u017edycky p\u0159itahovali star\u0161\u00ed mu\u017ei, proto\u017ee jej\u00ed vrstevn\u00edci se j\u00ed zd\u00e1li nezral\u00ed a sp\u00ed\u0161e jako kolegov\u00e9 ne\u017e partne\u0159i, a ona tou\u017eila po pocitu p\u00e9\u010de a p\u0159ijet\u00ed, kter\u00e9 vztah s n\u011bk\u00fdm star\u0161\u00edm poskytuje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mu\u017ei v takov\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch zase \u010dasto nach\u00e1zej\u00ed uspokojen\u00ed v roli zku\u0161en\u00e9ho pr\u016fvodce a oce\u0148uj\u00ed energii sv\u00e9 mlad\u0161\u00ed partnerky, i kdy\u017e \u010dasem se tato rovnov\u00e1ha m\u016f\u017ee naru\u0161it, jak \u017eena dosp\u00edv\u00e1 a jej\u00ed pot\u0159eby se za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed m\u011bnit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Podle Patricie Delahaie, autorky knihy \u201eJak se m\u00edt v\u017edy r\u00e1d?\u201c, maj\u00ed na\u0161e \u017eivotn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti obrovsk\u00fd vliv na to, jak vn\u00edm\u00e1me l\u00e1sku, proto\u017ee s p\u0159ib\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00edm v\u011bkem \u017eeny nehledaj\u00ed ani tak ochranu, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed podporu a partnerstv\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Star\u0161\u00ed mu\u017e je n\u011bkdy vn\u00edm\u00e1n jako opatrovn\u00edk nebo mentor, ale \u017eeny st\u00e1le \u010dast\u011bji preferuj\u00ed vztah zalo\u017een\u00fd na vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9m porozum\u011bn\u00ed a rovnov\u00e1ze, sp\u00ed\u0161e ne\u017e hierarchick\u00fd syst\u00e9m, v n\u011bm\u017e jedna strana vnucuje svou vizi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160estadvacetilet\u00e1 Marianne se dlouho vyh\u00fdbala vztah\u016fm se sv\u00fdmi vrstevn\u00edky, proto\u017ee je pova\u017eovala za p\u0159edv\u00eddateln\u00e9 a neinspirativn\u00ed, a tak navazovala vztahy se star\u0161\u00edmi i mlad\u0161\u00edmi mu\u017ei a zji\u0161\u0165ovala, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd z t\u011bchto vztah\u016f j\u00ed do \u017eivota p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed n\u011bco cenn\u00e9ho a osv\u011b\u017euj\u00edc\u00edho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aur\u00e9lien, kter\u00e9mu je dvacet sedm let a je ve vztahu s o sedm let mlad\u0161\u00ed partnerkou, sd\u00edl\u00ed podobn\u00fd n\u00e1zor a v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee jejich v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl hraje v jejich prosp\u011bch, proto\u017ee se oba u\u010d\u00ed jeden od druh\u00e9ho a z nov\u00fdch perspektiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Odborn\u00edci zd\u016fraz\u0148uj\u00ed, \u017ee kdy\u017e v\u011bkov\u00e9 rozd\u00edly podporuj\u00ed vz\u00e1jemnou zv\u011bdavost a v\u00fdm\u011bnu zku\u0161enost\u00ed, vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 siln\u011bj\u0161\u00edm a inspirativn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm, ale praktick\u00e9 z\u00e1le\u017eitosti, jako jsou r\u016fzn\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed etapy, pl\u00e1ny s d\u011btmi nebo kulturn\u00ed rozd\u00edly, mohou p\u0159edstavovat v\u00fdzvy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jednadvacetilet\u00e1 \u00c9milie chod\u00ed s p\u011btat\u0159icetilet\u00fdm mu\u017eem a otev\u0159en\u011b p\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee a\u010dkoli se ve vztahu c\u00edt\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1, je pro ni t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 si spole\u010dnou budoucnost p\u0159edstavit, proto\u017ee jej\u00ed priority jsou zcela odli\u0161n\u00e9 od priorit jej\u00edho partnera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Podle Patricie Delahaie se mnoho mlad\u00fdch \u017een ve vztaz\u00edch se zralej\u0161\u00edmi mu\u017ei rozch\u00e1z\u00ed kv\u016fli rozd\u00edl\u016fm v p\u0159\u00edstupu k zalo\u017een\u00ed rodiny, ale pokud se p\u00e1ru poda\u0159\u00ed p\u0159ekonat po\u010d\u00e1te\u010dn\u00ed p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eky, samotn\u00fd v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl \u010dasem ztr\u00e1c\u00ed na v\u00fdznamu a m\u016f\u017ee vztah dokonce pos\u00edlit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A\u010dkoli mnoho \u017een st\u00e1le zd\u016fraz\u0148uje, \u017ee je p\u0159itahuj\u00ed zralej\u0161\u00ed partnerky, a mu\u017ei se netaj\u00ed sympatiemi k mlad\u0161\u00edm \u017een\u00e1m, je st\u00e1le z\u0159ejm\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee se \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15283,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15282","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15282","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15282"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15282\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15284,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15282\/revisions\/15284"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/15283"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15282"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15282"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15282"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}