M\u00e1lokdo p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed o tom, co se d\u011bje \u201ena druh\u00e9 stran\u011b\u201c, kdy\u017e nav\u0161t\u00edv\u00edme hroby sv\u00fdch bl\u00edzk\u00fdch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e stoj\u00ed u hrobu, zapaluj\u00ed sv\u00ed\u010dku nebo pokl\u00e1daj\u00ed kv\u011btiny, mnoho lid\u00ed m\u00e1 pocit, jako by jim n\u011bkdo naslouchal, jako by tento okam\u017eik m\u011bl hlub\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdznam ne\u017e jen symbolick\u00e9 gesto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pak vyvst\u00e1v\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka, kter\u00e1 lidi tr\u00e1p\u00ed u\u017e po stalet\u00ed: \u201ec\u00edt\u00ed\u201c mrtv\u00ed na\u0161i p\u0159\u00edtomnost a uv\u011bdomuj\u00ed si v\u016fbec, \u017ee \u200b\u200bsi je pamatujeme?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 je odpov\u011b\u010f z\u0159ejm\u00e1 a vych\u00e1z\u00ed z v\u00edry, pro jin\u00e9 je to ot\u00e1zka psychologie, emoc\u00ed a pot\u0159eby uzav\u0159\u00edt ur\u010ditou kapitolu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Z v\u011bdeck\u00e9ho hlediska je v\u011bc jasn\u00e1 \u2013 po smrti t\u011blo p\u0159est\u00e1v\u00e1 fungovat a v\u011bdom\u00ed, jak ho zn\u00e1me, miz\u00ed spolu s fungov\u00e1n\u00edm mozku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Neexistuj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 d\u016fkazy o tom, \u017ee by mrtv\u00ed mohli fyzicky nebo emocion\u00e1ln\u011b c\u00edtit to, co my d\u011bl\u00e1me u jejich hrob\u016f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To ale neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee takov\u00e9 n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jsou \u201epr\u00e1zdn\u00e9\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Psychologov\u00e9 zd\u016fraz\u0148uj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva hrob\u016f m\u00e1 pro \u017eiv\u00e9 velk\u00fd v\u00fdznam, proto\u017ee jim pom\u00e1h\u00e1 pro\u017e\u00edvat smutek, uspo\u0159\u00e1dat si emoce a udr\u017eovat si pouto s osobou, kter\u00e1 zem\u0159ela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Proto mnoho lid\u00ed mluv\u00ed s zem\u0159el\u00fdmi, sd\u00edl\u00ed sv\u00e9 my\u0161lenky nebo vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 na spole\u010dn\u00e9 chv\u00edle a c\u00edt\u00ed \u00falevu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V praxi to nejsou mrtv\u00ed, kdo reaguj\u00ed na na\u0161i p\u0159\u00edtomnost \u2013 jsme to my sami, kdo tyto okam\u017eiky pot\u0159ebuje k vyrovn\u00e1n\u00ed se s jejich nep\u0159\u00edtomnost\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V mnoha n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00edch a tradic\u00edch se v\u0161ak objevuje zcela odli\u0161n\u00e1 perspektiva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u011b\u0159\u00ed se, \u017ee lidsk\u00e1 du\u0161e st\u00e1le existuje a m\u016f\u017ee n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem \u201ec\u00edtit\u201c vzpom\u00ednku, modlitbu nebo l\u00e1sku milovan\u00fdch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V takov\u00fdch p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00edch nen\u00ed n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva h\u0159bitova jen gestem, ale formou duchovn\u00edho kontaktu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Proto jsou pro mnoho lid\u00ed tyto okam\u017eiky tak siln\u00e9 a pln\u00e9 emoc\u00ed, jako by ve skute\u010dnosti nebyli sami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0165 u\u017e se na to d\u00edv\u00e1me z v\u011bdeck\u00e9ho nebo duchovn\u00edho hlediska, jedna v\u011bc z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 spole\u010dn\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pam\u011b\u0165 na mrtv\u00e9 nezmiz\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To, co d\u011bl\u00e1me u jejich hrob\u016f, je p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00edm na\u0161\u00ed l\u00e1sky, touhy a pot\u0159eby bl\u00edzkosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A i kdy\u017e odpov\u011b\u010f na ot\u00e1zku, zda to \u201ec\u00edt\u00ed\u201c, nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt nikdy jasn\u00e1, jedna v\u011bc je jist\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tyto okam\u017eiky n\u00e1s m\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
U\u010d\u00ed v\u00e1s v\u00e1\u017eit si \u017eivota, vztah\u016f a lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou st\u00e1le kolem v\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Proto\u017ee n\u011bkdy nejde o to, co c\u00edt\u00ed mrtv\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jen o tom, co c\u00edt\u00edme, kdy\u017e ml\u010dky stoj\u00edme nad jejich hrobem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"M\u00e1lokdo p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed o tom, co se d\u011bje \u201ena druh\u00e9 stran\u011b\u201c, kdy\u017e nav\u0161t\u00edv\u00edme hroby sv\u00fdch bl\u00edzk\u00fdch. Kdy\u017e stoj\u00ed u hrobu, zapaluj\u00ed sv\u00ed\u010dku nebo pokl\u00e1daj\u00ed \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14272,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14271","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14271","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14271"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14271\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14273,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14271\/revisions\/14273"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/14272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14271"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14271"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14271"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}