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A\u010dkoli mnoho \u017een st\u00e1le zd\u016fraz\u0148uje, \u017ee je p\u0159itahuj\u00ed zralej\u0161\u00ed partnerky, a mu\u017ei otev\u0159en\u011b up\u0159ednost\u0148uj\u00ed mlad\u0161\u00ed \u017eeny, je st\u00e1le jasn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee se tyto vzorce pomalu m\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Studie vztah\u016f s velk\u00fdm v\u011bkov\u00fdm rozd\u00edlem odhaluj\u00ed zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 korelace, kter\u00e9 na jedn\u00e9 stran\u011b potvrzuj\u00ed stereotypy a na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b je st\u00e1le v\u00edce zpochyb\u0148uj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e britsk\u00e1 seznamka po\u017e\u00e1dala tis\u00edc nezadan\u00fdch, aby uvedli spodn\u00ed a horn\u00ed v\u011bkovou hranici sv\u00e9ho ide\u00e1ln\u00edho partnera, v\u00fdsledky uk\u00e1zaly, \u017ee tradi\u010dn\u00ed vzorce maj\u00ed v realit\u011b st\u00e1le silnou rezonanci, se siln\u00fdm pocitem\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uk\u00e1zalo se, \u017ee mu\u017ei si \u010dast\u011bji vyb\u00edraj\u00ed \u017eeny mlad\u0161\u00ed, maxim\u00e1ln\u011b o deset let, a akceptuj\u00ed partnerky ne star\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e p\u011bt let, zat\u00edmco \u017eeny otev\u0159en\u011b prohla\u0161uj\u00ed, \u017ee jsou o \u0161est let star\u0161\u00ed a asi o p\u011bt let mlad\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Na prvn\u00ed pohled se tento p\u0159\u00edstup m\u016f\u017ee jevit jako opakov\u00e1n\u00ed star\u00fdch vzorc\u016f, ale v praxi st\u00e1le v\u00edce lid\u00ed vstupuje do vztah\u016f, kde je v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl skute\u010dn\u011b v\u00fdznamn\u00fd a v\u016fbec ne p\u0159ehnan\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Florence, kter\u00e9 bylo dvacet sedm let, kdy\u017e za\u010dala bou\u0159liv\u00fd rom\u00e1nek s o jedna\u010dty\u0159icet let star\u0161\u00edm kolegou z pr\u00e1ce, vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 na jejich vztah se sm\u011bsic\u00ed nostalgie a \u00fasm\u011bvu a zd\u016fraz\u0148uje jedine\u010dnost jejich vztahu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u010dkoli byl jejich vztah kr\u00e1sn\u00fd a trval deset m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f, jejich rozd\u00edly se uk\u00e1zaly jako nep\u0159ekonateln\u00e1 p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eka, proto\u017ee on m\u011bl d\u00edt\u011b a domov a ona tou\u017eila cestovat a za\u010d\u00edt znovu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b je Florence t\u0159icet jedna let a je \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 s mu\u017eem sv\u00e9ho v\u011bku a zd\u016fraz\u0148uje, \u017ee spole\u010dn\u00e9 pot\u0159eby a touhy usnad\u0148uj\u00ed a komplikuj\u00ed ka\u017edodenn\u00ed \u017eivot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Podobn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy jsou b\u011b\u017en\u00e9, proto\u017ee fascinace v\u00fdrazn\u011b star\u0161\u00edm nebo mlad\u0161\u00edm partnerem m\u016f\u017ee pramenit jak z n\u00e1hody, tak z hlub\u0161\u00edch tu\u017eeb nebo projekc\u00ed, kdy \u017eeny hledaj\u00ed u partnera vlastnosti a vn\u00edmaj\u00ed se jako mladistv\u00e9 a sv\u011b\u017e\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e9line, kter\u00e9 je \u010dty\u0159icet p\u011bt let, v\u017edy p\u0159itahovali star\u0161\u00ed mu\u017ei, proto\u017ee jej\u00ed vrstevn\u00edci se j\u00ed zd\u00e1li nezral\u00ed a sp\u00ed\u0161e jako kolegov\u00e9 ne\u017e partne\u0159i, a je to ona a jej\u00ed touha vlastnit star\u0161\u00edho partnera, kdo vztah akceptuje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mu\u017ei v takov\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch naopak \u010dasto \u010derpaj\u00ed uspokojen\u00ed z role zku\u0161en\u00e9ho pr\u016fvodce a oce\u0148uj\u00ed energii sv\u00e9ho mlad\u0161\u00edho partnera, i kdy\u017e se tato rovnov\u00e1ha \u010dasem m\u016f\u017ee posunout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Podle Patricie Delahaie, autorky knihy \u201eJak se m\u00edt v\u017edy r\u00e1d?\u201c, maj\u00ed na\u0161e \u017eivotn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti obrovsk\u00fd vliv na to, jak vn\u00edm\u00e1me l\u00e1sku, proto\u017ee v pr\u016fb\u011bhu let \u017eeny hledaj\u00ed v \u017eivot\u011b oporu, nejen ochranu pro partnerstv\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Star\u0161\u00ed mu\u017e je n\u011bkdy vn\u00edm\u00e1n jako opatrovn\u00edk nebo mentor, ale \u017eeny st\u00e1le \u010dast\u011bji preferuj\u00ed vztah zalo\u017een\u00fd na vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9m porozum\u011bn\u00ed a rovnov\u00e1ze, sp\u00ed\u0161e ne\u017e hierarchick\u00fd syst\u00e9m, v n\u011bm\u017e jedna strana vnucuje svou vlastn\u00ed vizi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Marianne, kter\u00e9 je dvacet \u0161est let, se dlouho vyh\u00fdbala vztah\u016fm s vrstevn\u00edky, proto\u017ee je pova\u017eovala za p\u0159edv\u00eddateln\u00e9 a neinspirativn\u00ed. Proto navazovala vztahy se star\u0161\u00edmi i mlad\u0161\u00edmi mu\u017ei, z nich\u017e ka\u017ed\u00fd do jej\u00edho \u017eivota p\u0159inesl n\u011bco cenn\u00e9ho a osv\u011b\u017euj\u00edc\u00edho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aur\u00e9lien, kter\u00fd je ve sv\u00fdch sedmadvaceti letech ve vztahu s partnerem o sedm let mlad\u0161\u00edm, sd\u00edl\u00ed podobn\u00fd n\u00e1zor. V\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl hraje v jejich prosp\u011bch, proto\u017ee oba nyn\u00ed \u010derpaj\u00ed z pohledu toho druh\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Odborn\u00edci zd\u016fraz\u0148uj\u00ed, \u017ee kdy\u017e v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl podporuje vz\u00e1jemnou zv\u011bdavost a v\u00fdm\u011bnu zku\u0161enost\u00ed, vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 siln\u011bj\u0161\u00edm a inspirativn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm. Praktick\u00e9 z\u00e1le\u017eitosti, jako je p\u0159echod mezi plodn\u00fdmi f\u00e1zemi plozen\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed nebo kulturn\u00ed rozd\u00edly, v\u0161ak mohou p\u0159edstavovat v\u00fdzvy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c9milie, jednadvacetilet\u00e1 \u017eena, kter\u00e1 chod\u00ed s p\u011btat\u0159icetilet\u00fdm mu\u017eem, otev\u0159en\u011b p\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee a\u010dkoli se ve sv\u00e9m vztahu c\u00edt\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1, je pro ni t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 si p\u0159edstavit spole\u010dnou budoucnost p\u0159ed vd\u00e1n\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Podle Patricie Delahaie se mnoho mlad\u00fdch \u017een ve vztaz\u00edch se zralej\u0161\u00edmi mu\u017ei rozch\u00e1z\u00ed kv\u016fli rozd\u00edln\u00e9mu p\u0159\u00edstupu k zalo\u017een\u00ed rodiny. Pokud v\u0161ak p\u00e1r dok\u00e1\u017ee p\u0159ekonat po\u010d\u00e1te\u010dn\u00ed p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eky, stejn\u00fd pocit soun\u00e1le\u017eitosti a rozd\u00edl ve smyslu m\u016f\u017ee vztah skute\u010dn\u011b pos\u00edlit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A\u010dkoli mnoho \u017een st\u00e1le zd\u016fraz\u0148uje, \u017ee je p\u0159itahuj\u00ed zralej\u0161\u00ed partnerky, a mu\u017ei otev\u0159en\u011b up\u0159ednost\u0148uj\u00ed mlad\u0161\u00ed \u017eeny, je st\u00e1le jasn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee se tyto vzorce \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13212,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13211","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13211","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13211"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13211\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13213,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13211\/revisions\/13213"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/13212"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13211"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13211"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13211"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}