Je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159ed ozn\u00e1men\u00edm rozchodu jeden z partner\u016f mo\u017en\u00e1 uva\u017eoval o ukon\u010den\u00ed vztahu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak tuto my\u0161lenku rozpoznat a reagovat, kdy\u017e je vztah ohro\u017een?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u011bkter\u00e9 romantick\u00e9 vztahy n\u011bkdy skon\u010d\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159edt\u00edm, ne\u017e je rozchod dokon\u010den.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nast\u00e1v\u00e1 situace, kdy je vztah nevyrovnan\u00fd a jeden z partner\u016f uva\u017euje o rozchodu. N\u011bkter\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky jsou nepopirateln\u00e9, v\u010detn\u011b chov\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 prozrazuje touhu po rozchodu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Odstup, m\u00e1lo \u010dasu str\u00e1ven\u00e9ho spole\u010dn\u011b, \u010dast\u00e9 h\u00e1dky, nedostatek z\u00e1jmu\u2026 Jak pozn\u00e1te, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 partner uva\u017euje o odchodu? Psycholo\u017eka Catherine Pierratov\u00e1 do situace vn\u00e1\u0161\u00ed trochu sv\u011btla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak\u00e9 jsou zn\u00e1mky toho, \u017ee m\u016fj partner uva\u017euje o nadobrou ukon\u010den\u00ed vztahu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f uva\u017euje o rozchodu, je b\u011b\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee tyto pocity sd\u00edl\u00ed. Tato nerovnov\u00e1ha m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt destabilizuj\u00edc\u00ed i pro n\u011bkoho, kdo tento v\u00fdvoj ud\u00e1lost\u00ed nep\u0159edpokl\u00e1dal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eN\u011bkdy v\u00edd\u00e1m p\u00e1ry, kter\u00e9 p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed a jeden z nich je zmaten\u00fd, zat\u00edmco druh\u00fd \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee se v\u011bci u\u017e rok neda\u0159\u00ed,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Catherine Pierratov\u00e1. Poznamen\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee k takov\u00fdm situac\u00edm doch\u00e1z\u00ed, \u201eproto\u017ee se dostaneme do rutiny, pozorujeme a jsme navz\u00e1jem ostra\u017eit\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Existuj\u00ed i \u200b\u200bdal\u0161\u00ed varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 lze pozorovat, vysv\u011btluje psycholog. Ty jsou n\u011bkdy nen\u00e1padn\u00e9 a zahrnuj\u00ed p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm zm\u011bny v n\u00e1vyc\u00edch nebo del\u0161\u00ed \u010das str\u00e1ven\u00fd o samot\u011b \u010di s ostatn\u00edmi. \u201e\u010clov\u011bk, kter\u00fd za\u010dne s nov\u00fdm sportem, za\u010dne odch\u00e1zet z domu, kdy\u017e to d\u0159\u00edve ned\u011blal, n\u00e1hle se rozhodne zm\u011bnit stravu nebo n\u00e1hle d\u00e9le z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 v pr\u00e1ci…\u201c uv\u00e1d\u00ed. \u201eTo v\u0161e by mohly b\u00fdt zn\u00e1mky probl\u00e9mu.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u00e9n\u011b aktivn\u00ed nebo odli\u0161n\u00fd sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed \u017eivot m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt tak\u00e9 faktorem, kter\u00fd je t\u0159eba zv\u00e1\u017eit, a\u010dkoli psycholog poznamen\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee je obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 interpretovat to jako samostatn\u00fd sign\u00e1l. Intimn\u00ed \u017eivot je ve skute\u010dnosti mnohem slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jak p\u0159ekonat tuto t\u011b\u017ekou f\u00e1zi, nebo zjistit, zda je \u010das na rozchod? Je to konec vztahu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je v\u0161ak t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 si u partnera v\u0161imnout zm\u011bn denn\u011b, proto\u017ee v\u0161e z\u00e1vis\u00ed na jeho osobnosti. \u201eN\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 jsou od p\u0159\u00edrody laskav\u00ed a starostliv\u00ed a neprojevuj\u00ed zn\u00e1mky odstupu,\u201c vysv\u011btluje Catherine Pierratov\u00e1. Psycholo\u017eka tak\u00e9 poznamen\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 mohou z\u016fstat v pop\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed a \u010delit \u201esign\u00e1l\u016fm, kter\u00e9 necht\u011bj\u00ed vid\u011bt\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e se objev\u00ed nerovnov\u00e1ha a partner se zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt na pokraji ukon\u010den\u00ed vztahu, jak by m\u011bl \u010dlov\u011bk reagovat? Catherine Pierrat zd\u016fraz\u0148uje, \u017ee v\u010dasn\u00e9 odhalen\u00ed zn\u00e1mek odstupu v tomto obdob\u00ed je ide\u00e1ln\u00ed pro p\u0159ijet\u00ed lep\u0161\u00edch opat\u0159en\u00ed a nad\u011bji na zlep\u0161en\u00ed. Ve skute\u010dnosti \u201ejakmile se druh\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk odt\u00e1hne, je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 situaci zvr\u00e1tit,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Abyste se z tohoto vzorce vymanili, jsou nezbytn\u00e9 dv\u011b v\u011bci: \u201eneust\u00e1l\u00e1 bd\u011blost\u201c a autentick\u00e1 komunikace v r\u00e1mci p\u00e1ru. A tak\u00e9 empatie. \u201ePokud jeden z partner\u016f c\u00edt\u00ed, \u017ee ve vztahu bojuje, m\u011bl by si o tom promluvit,\u201c rad\u00ed Catherine Pierrat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Psycholog n\u00e1m p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1: komunikace a up\u0159\u00edmnost jsou nejlep\u0161\u00edmi \u0159e\u0161en\u00edmi. Jsou z\u00e1kladem \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9ho vztahu. Nedostatek komunikace je v\u0161ak jed. Nikdo nen\u00ed imunn\u00ed v\u016f\u010di vzestup\u016fm a p\u00e1d\u016fm, ale pouze ti, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou ochotni probl\u00e9mu odv\u00e1\u017en\u011b \u010delit, budou schopni toto t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 obdob\u00ed p\u0159ekonat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159ed ozn\u00e1men\u00edm rozchodu jeden z partner\u016f mo\u017en\u00e1 uva\u017eoval o ukon\u010den\u00ed vztahu. Jak tuto my\u0161lenku rozpoznat a reagovat, kdy\u017e je vztah ohro\u017een? N\u011bkter\u00e9 \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":116,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-115","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/115","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=115"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/115\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":117,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/115\/revisions\/117"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/116"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=115"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=115"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=115"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}