B\u00fdt \u0161edes\u00e1tiletou \u017eenou, kter\u00e1 nikdy neza\u017eila fyzickou intimitu, je pro Pam Shaw mimo\u0159\u00e1dnou cestou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Daleko od stereotyp\u016f a spole\u010densk\u00fdch o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159istupuje ke sv\u00e9mu p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu s klidem a hrdost\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pam Shaw je 60 let.<\/strong> \u017dije sama v mal\u00e9m dom\u011b na severu Anglie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Na prvn\u00ed pohled se nic neli\u0161\u00ed od ostatn\u00edch \u017een v jej\u00edm v\u011bku. Jeden detail je v\u0161ak p\u0159ekvapiv\u00fd: Pam je st\u00e1le panna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ano, panna v \u0161edes\u00e1ti. Kdy\u017e tohle \u0159ekne, v\u0161em ztuhnou o\u010di a za\u010dnou se v\u00ed\u0159it ot\u00e1zky. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed nech\u00e1pou.<\/strong> Jin\u00ed nemohou uv\u011b\u0159it vlastn\u00edm u\u0161\u00edm. Ona se jen usm\u011bje. Pam v\u017edycky \u0161la neoby\u010dejnou cestou, cestou, kter\u00e1 je jedine\u010dn\u00e1 jen pro ni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vyr\u016fstala v konzervativn\u00ed rodin\u011b. Jej\u00ed velmi p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e1 matka j\u00ed neust\u00e1le \u0159\u00edkala, \u017ee fyzick\u00e1 l\u00e1ska by m\u011bla p\u0159ij\u00edt a\u017e po svatb\u011b. Pam ale nikdy nena\u0161la toho prav\u00e9ho. M\u011bla af\u00e9rky, romantick\u00e9 ve\u010dery, za\u010d\u00e1tky vztah\u016f. Nic v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9ho. Nic, co by ji donutilo k tomuto kroku.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n Postupem \u010dasu se tato volba stala jej\u00ed realitou. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 ob\u011b\u0165. Prost\u011b jin\u00fd zp\u016fsob \u017eivota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pam si nest\u011b\u017euje. Nikdy nem\u011bla pocit, \u017ee by o n\u011bco p\u0159ich\u00e1zela. Miluje svou svobodu, sv\u016fj re\u017eim, sv\u016fj \u010das o samot\u011b.<\/strong> Na rozd\u00edl od toho, co si n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 mysl\u00ed, ne\u017eije ve frustraci. \u010cte, zp\u00edv\u00e1, chod\u00ed ven, sm\u011bje se. Vede bohat\u00fd a napl\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed \u017eivot, osvobozen\u00fd od citov\u00fdch vazeb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201eNepot\u0159ebuji fyzick\u00fd kontakt, abych se c\u00edtila na\u017eivu,\u201c \u010dasto se p\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1. Intimita se pro ni neomezuje jen<\/strong> na jednu v\u011bc. \u00dat\u011bchu nach\u00e1z\u00ed v up\u0159\u00edmn\u00fdch rozhovorech, jednoduch\u00fdch gestech a pohledech bl\u00edzk\u00fdch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm odm\u00edt\u00e1 d\u011blat v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 by m\u011bly odpov\u00eddat jak\u00e9mukoli standardu: jej\u00ed t\u011blo, jej\u00ed volby, jej\u00ed \u017eivot. T\u011bm, kte\u0159\u00ed na tom trvaj\u00ed, klidn\u011b odpov\u00edd\u00e1: \u201eNem\u00e1m nic proti l\u00e1sce. Ale nikdy jsem se do n\u00ed necht\u011bla nutit.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pam se neboj\u00ed st\u00e1rnut\u00ed. Z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 stylov\u00e1<\/strong> , dynamick\u00e1 a c\u00edt\u00ed se pohodln\u011b ve sv\u00e9 k\u016f\u017ei. Chce uk\u00e1zat, \u017ee napln\u011bn\u00ed nez\u00e1vis\u00ed na romantick\u00e9m statusu nebo sexu\u00e1ln\u00edch zku\u0161enostech. Toto poselstv\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt znepokojiv\u00e9. Je znepokojiv\u00e9. Ale je tak\u00e9 inspirativn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u017deny nad pades\u00e1t let \u010dasto z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed pro spole\u010dnost neviditeln\u00e9. O\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1 se od nich, \u017ee spln\u00ed v\u0161echny po\u017eadavky: man\u017eelstv\u00ed, d\u011bti, kari\u00e9ru, domov. Pam nespl\u0148uje t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 nic z toho, a p\u0159esto vyza\u0159uje. P\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 n\u00e1m, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e1 cesta m\u00e1 svou hodnotu, i kdy\u017e se odchyluje od normy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Jej\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh koluje u\u017e n\u011bjakou dobu. Vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 diskuse a zamy\u0161len\u00ed. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed ji odsuzuj\u00ed<\/strong> . Jin\u00ed j\u00ed d\u011bkuj\u00ed. A p\u0159esto se v\u017edy usm\u00edv\u00e1 a bez l\u00edtosti jde d\u00e1l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pam Shawov\u00e1 v \u0161edes\u00e1ti letech nikdy nepoznala intimitu. Ale poznala klid. A ve sv\u011bt\u011b, kter\u00fd neust\u00e1le hled\u00e1 uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, je mo\u017en\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b to ta prav\u00e1 svoboda.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"B\u00fdt \u0161edes\u00e1tiletou \u017eenou, kter\u00e1 nikdy neza\u017eila fyzickou intimitu, je pro Pam Shaw mimo\u0159\u00e1dnou cestou. 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Siln\u00e9 poselstv\u00ed pro \u017eeny v jej\u00edm v\u011bku<\/h2>\n\n\n\n