\u010casto sl\u00fdch\u00e1me, \u017ee l\u00e1ska je slep\u00e1 \u2013 \u017ee pokud jde o p\u0159ita\u017elivost, na ni\u010dem jin\u00e9m ne\u017e na spojen\u00ed a chemii mezi nimi nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale je to skute\u010dn\u011b pravda?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ned\u00e1vn\u00fd mezin\u00e1rodn\u00ed v\u00fdzkum nazna\u010duje, \u017ee na\u0161e romantick\u00e9 volby nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt tak n\u00e1hodn\u00e9, jak si mysl\u00edme. Ve skute\u010dnosti by n\u011bco tak jednoduch\u00e9ho, jako je v\u00fd\u0161ka, mohlo nen\u00e1padn\u011b ovliv\u0148ovat, koho pova\u017eujeme za p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e9ho \u2013 ani\u017e bychom si to uv\u011bdomovali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jemn\u00fd vzorec skryt\u00fd na o\u010d\u00edch
Studie publikovan\u00e1 v \u010dasopise Frontiers in Psychology zkoumala, jak v\u00fd\u0161ka ovliv\u0148uje p\u0159ita\u017elivost. V\u00fdzkumn\u00edci provedli pr\u016fzkum mezi 536 lidmi ve \u010dty\u0159ech zem\u00edch \u2013 Kanad\u011b, Kub\u011b, Norsku a Spojen\u00fdch st\u00e1tech.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00da\u010dastn\u00edk\u016fm byly uk\u00e1z\u00e1ny jednoduch\u00e9 kresby mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een r\u016fzn\u00e9 v\u00fd\u0161ky a polo\u017eena jim byla jednoduch\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Koho byste si vybrali \u2013 pro nez\u00e1vazn\u00fd vztah?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A koho byste si vybrali pro n\u011bco dlouhodob\u00e9ho?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Odpov\u011bdi odhalily p\u0159ekvapiv\u011b konzistentn\u00ed vzorec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nap\u0159\u00ed\u010d kulturami, v\u011bky a z\u00e1zem\u00edm:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mu\u017ei m\u011bli tendenci preferovat \u017eeny o n\u011bco ni\u017e\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e pr\u016fm\u011br.
\u017deny m\u011bly tendenci preferovat mu\u017ee o n\u011bco vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e pr\u016fm\u011br.
V pr\u016fm\u011bru:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mu\u017ei si vyb\u00edrali \u017eeny asi o 2,5 cm ni\u017e\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e je pr\u016fm\u011br \u017een v jejich zemi.
\u017deny si vyb\u00edraly mu\u017ee asi o 2,3 cm vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e je pr\u016fm\u011br mu\u017e\u016f v jejich zemi.
Nen\u00ed to velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl \u2013 ale sta\u010d\u00ed k prok\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed jasn\u00e9ho trendu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pouze pro ilustra\u010dn\u00ed \u00fa\u010dely<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pro\u010d na v\u00fd\u0161ce z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed?
Na prvn\u00ed pohled se to m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t jen jako kulturn\u00ed preference. Skute\u010dnost, \u017ee se tyto vzorce objevily v r\u016fzn\u00fdch zem\u00edch, v\u0161ak nazna\u010duje n\u011bco hlub\u0161\u00edho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u011bdci se domn\u00edvaj\u00ed, \u017ee tyto preference mohou b\u00fdt formov\u00e1ny kombinac\u00ed evoluce, psychologie a soci\u00e1ln\u00edch norem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pro mu\u017ee:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Preference pro ni\u017e\u0161\u00ed \u017eeny m\u016f\u017ee nev\u011bdom\u011b souviset s:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017denskost<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mladistvost
Pocit kompatibility
Pro \u017eeny:
P\u0159ita\u017elivost k vy\u0161\u0161\u00edm mu\u017e\u016fm m\u016f\u017ee souviset s:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pocity ochrany
Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed
Soci\u00e1ln\u00ed status
Tyto asociace nejsou v\u017edy v\u011bdom\u00e9 \u2013 ale mohou nen\u00e1padn\u011b ovliv\u0148ovat p\u0159ita\u017elivost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom v\u00edce u v\u00e1\u017en\u00fdch vztah\u016f?
Zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 je, \u017ee studie zjistila, \u017ee preference v\u00fd\u0161ky se staly znateln\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi, kdy\u017e lid\u00e9 p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161leli o dlouhodob\u00fdch partnerech.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V nez\u00e1vazn\u00fdch rand\u011bn\u00ed byli lid\u00e9 flexibiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale p\u0159i p\u0159edstav\u011b trval\u00e9ho vztahu se tyto preference zes\u00edlily \u2013 co\u017e nazna\u010duje, \u017ee v\u00fd\u0161ka by mohla m\u00edt symbolick\u00fd v\u00fdznam, kdy\u017e p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edme o z\u00e1vazku, stabilit\u011b nebo kompatibilit\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pouze pro ilustra\u010dn\u00ed \u00fa\u010dely<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tak\u017ee\u2026 Je l\u00e1ska opravdu slep\u00e1?
Ne tak docela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I kdy\u017e l\u00e1ska m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt spont\u00e1nn\u00ed a emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed, na\u0161e preference jsou \u010dasto ovlivn\u011bny mal\u00fdmi, skryt\u00fdmi sign\u00e1ly \u2013 jako je v\u00fd\u0161ka \u2013 o kter\u00fdch aktivn\u011b nep\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale tady je ta d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 \u010d\u00e1st:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00fd\u0161ka nerozhoduje o \u00fasp\u011bchu vztahu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nep\u0159edpov\u00edd\u00e1 emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed spojen\u00ed, d\u016fv\u011bru ani \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je to jen jeden d\u00edlek mnohem v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed skl\u00e1da\u010dky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shrnut\u00ed
Tento v\u00fdzkum neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee jsme ovl\u00e1d\u00e1ni biologi\u00ed nebo spole\u010densk\u00fdmi o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edmi \u2013 ale ukazuje, \u017ee p\u0159ita\u017elivost je v\u00edcevrstv\u00e1, ne\u017e se zd\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00edm si t\u011bchto jemn\u00fdch vliv\u016f m\u016f\u017eeme:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lep\u0161\u00ed pochopen\u00ed vlastn\u00edch preferenc\u00ed
Rozpozn\u00e1n\u00ed nev\u011bdom\u00fdch p\u0159edsudk\u016f
\u010cin\u011bn\u00ed z\u00e1m\u011brn\u011bj\u0161\u00edch rozhodnut\u00ed ve vztaz\u00edch<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u010casto sl\u00fdch\u00e1me, \u017ee l\u00e1ska je slep\u00e1 \u2013 \u017ee pokud jde o p\u0159ita\u017elivost, na ni\u010dem jin\u00e9m ne\u017e na spojen\u00ed a chemii mezi nimi nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed. \n [...]<\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10807,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10806","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10806","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10806"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10806\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10808,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10806\/revisions\/10808"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/10807"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10806"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10806"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fakt24.biz.ua\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10806"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}